little white lies dont hurt do they

[metal mania]

my "friend" wanted to go detecting more regularly but his woman moaned and groaned about kids gardening and work.

you get the picture right guys so hes come up with a plan so cunning you could pin a tail on it and call it a fox.


this is it buy a cheap gold plate ring claim its 24k and hes found it detecting

then bingo home run master stroke hes walking doing da great escape tune.

honest it is my "friend"

so what do you think

[Lakemonster]

it'll work all up until the point she trots into the jeweler with it.



Then?



GAME OVER

[metal mania]

it'll work all up until the point she trots into the jeweler with it.



Then? dam dam back to da old drawing board



GAME OVER

[lookindown]

I would say no but it would be a white lie.

[gleaner1]

If I had to choose between three things, 1. not being able to detect any time I wanted and 2. being married and not being able to detect any time I wanted and 3. being able to detect any time I wanted at will, married or not, I would probably just go down to the river and try some fishing or something, anytime I wanted.

[FarmerChick]

yea white lie that will be a big pain in his azz if she finds out.

to me this is a relationship problem big time!

he needs to grow a set and work on his relationship instead of lying is what I see.

[metal mania]

[quote=FarmerChick ]
yea white lie that will be a big pain in his azz if she finds out.

to me this is a relationship problem big time!

he needs to grow a set and work on his relationship instead of lying is what I see.


nice reply I will pass on your comments perhaps I will tone them down a tad such as

old chap I believe you need to spend time with your wife now be a good chap and buy her choclates

[FarmerChick]

LOL

usually if someone doesn't want to spend time with the old ball and chain it is cause she is fixated on 'her life' which is the kids, home and more.

if he throws in some 'good old romance to knock her off her feet' then he will win in the end

[ivan salis]

if SHE 0NLY LIKES DA MONEY *( your so going to have issues * sooner or later) hopefully the "kids" are old enough go with dad detecting --so take the kids with you when you go detecting * they love to help dad normally -- teach em to be yer diggers and teach them about detecting --teach them to love yer hobby --spend some "quality time" with em --gives the wife some "alone time" so she can watch tv or nap or sit around eating chocolate or whatever it is that "destress's" her

[FarmerChick]

and also why is the kids, gardening and work not his priority....and just hers?

if ya marry what the heck did ya think you would get....a family...now deal with it


there are tons of way to make family life and "fun" life....geez we do it all the time


I wonder about him being a dad truly? one of those I don't need to spend time with the wife, which means the kids are lower on the totem pole, and detecting is his way out....nothing wrong with that unless you overuse, over lie to get away from it all.

[stefen]

my "friend" wanted to go detecting more regularly but his woman moaned and groaned about kids gardening and work.

you get the picture right guys so hes come up with a plan so cunning you could pin a tail on it and call it a fox.


this is it buy a cheap gold plate ring claim its 24k and hes found it detecting

then bingo home run master stroke hes walking doing da great escape tune.

honest it is my "friend"

so what do you think

Don't lie to me...you didn't take your meds today!

[NewsMan]

My daughter is my detecting buddy. She's not old enough to swing, but it does make dad hobby time family time too!

[mrs.oroblanco]

There is a time for work, and a time for play.

A good relationship allows for both for all.

Lying is too much like work. Is she his mommy? (as in "you stay here and do your homework?) or his wife. If you are in a grown-up relationship, you make time for your kids, your wife/husband/work/ ..... and play.

No two people like everything the same. So, every relationship has some things that people do separately.

Lying is always bad, and always comes back to bite you, in one way or another. Even a little white lie can sometimes come up 10 years later in a fight, when someone is saying "honest, honey, would I lie to you?" Well, as a matter of fact, you would........................................

Make time to do it all - even if you have to schedule it, and keep it honest.

Beth

[Lowbatts]

What Beth said.

That, and if you want, we can see if you're fit for a woman who can take care of you and yours while you buzz off md'ing.

Then again I'm just a tad bit spoiled by my sweetie and the formerly little ones.