Exactly, all my wifes jewelry that's worth something is insured and most people do thy same thing.
.... I sell it all and do not care what any one thinks................. I don't waste my time trying to find a owner...... most of the time like 99.9% of the time it is impossible .... So i just don't worry about it ...And oh yes i do sleep well............ And i am not a human being... I have no morals And i would not feel better about wasting my time over nothing.........What, why would you want to sell it ? Would you want me to sell yours ? Wheres your ethics as a detector and a human being, not to mention morals. Give it a honest effort and if the original owner is not to be found then I would feel OK with it, but not until then. There is also something about listing it in a public newspaper and if no one claims it within some many days its legally yours, but try you will feel better for it. Good Luck on your decision
Keppy said:.... I sell it all and do not care what any one thinks................. I don't waste my time trying to find a owner...... most of the time like 99.9% of the time it is impossible .... So i just don't worry about it ...And oh yes i do sleep well............ And i am not a human being... I have no morals And i would not feel better about wasting my time over nothing.........
. .... well you see it is better to tell it like it is ..... like you did and i did..... You see most on here say what they think others want to hear.... For they want to look like a wonderful nice person to others............... So they fib a little about how good they are.... To me the ones that crucified you and i would do the same as we do ..........But tell a different story of what they do here on Tnet....LOOK AT ME I AM JUST A GREAT PERSON THEY SAY><<><><>Keppy u might get crucified more than I did for saying the samething
. .... well you see it is better to tell it like it is ..... like you did and i did..... You see most on here say what they think others want to hear.... For they want to look like a wonderful nice person to others............... So they fib a little about how good they are.... To me the ones that crucified you and i would do the same as we do ..........But tell a different story of what they do here on Tnet....LOOK AT ME I AM JUST A GREAT PERSON THEY SAY><<><><>
I know Jeff it is just a word some one threw it out so i threw it back out ..That's all ..I've been trying to watch this thread closely ,
I Don't see anyone being crucified, I Don't think anything was deleted either.
I Just see opinions pro & con
Nothing wrong with that
Thanks for reminding me of the time when I searched this property and found bugger-all except this big massive silver hockey championship ring. I marched right up to the door, knocked and the son who was in his late teens came and answered. I handed him the ring and he smugly replied "oh yeah, my hockey ring. I guess I'll have 2 now." I noticed the exact one on his hand which he got replaced by the insurance company. He didn't even say thanks and closed door and I went home empty handed.
I would have returned it anyway but in this case I felt pretty empty afterwards with nothing to show for my day. He couldn't care less whether I had found it or not.
Oh well, that's the way it goes sometimes.
..... My class ring like you i don't know were it is and could care less....... For all i know some one with a detector has found it and sold it........... Good for him..Exactly, all my wifes jewelry that's worth something is insured and most people do thy same thing. I can't imagine anyone get emotional over a class ring there the biggest waste of money, I wouldn't even have a clue where mine is at
Muddy, I have heard of the same reception of others who tracked down owners. Sure, most of the time it's the happy re-union stories, peppered with "thankyous" and a great "who-dunn-it mystery" ending. Yeah. But other times, it's as you describe. Persons who look at you like your from outer space, take the object, and don't even give so much as a thankyou. I know a fellow, for example, who tracked down the owner of a class ring, and somehow made contact with the person. The person said "Mail it to such & such address" (because they were across the state from each other). The md'r said "send me the postage cost, or a SASE package at least". The owner said "if you don't mail it to me, I'm calling the police, because you have my property afterall". Can you believe it??
Another time, a friend of mine was hunting the beach, and a person came up to them asking for help finding a ring. My friend stopped what he was doing, and went to the other end of the beach, and spent nearly an hour scouring the area where the ring was supposed to have been lost. Meanwhile, the person who had enlisted his help, merely had gone back to playing volleyball with his college buddies. After an hour of work, and finally finding it, my friend came to interupt their game, and show the person the ring. The guy merely snatched it out of his hands, exclaimed with glee "that's it!", and ran back to continue to his game. My friend never got a thankyou or anything, and had just spent an hour of his time searching for this guy, in an area/part of the beach he had no intention of hunting that day.
Of course, we hope those ingrate stories are the exception.
Tom your friend was asked to provide a service. He provided the service and should have provided the bill for said service.
In my experience those are definately the exception and not the rule. I've had people get indignant while I've held the door open for them. Remarks such as: "I'm not helpless!" or "don't rush me". I'm still going to hold doors open for people regardless of the few ungrateful A-holes out there.Muddy, I have heard of the same reception of others who tracked down owners. Sure, most of the time it's the happy re-union stories, peppered with "thankyous" and a great "who-dunn-it mystery" ending. Yeah. But other times, it's as you describe. Persons who look at you like your from outer space, take the object, and don't even give so much as a thankyou. I know a fellow, for example, who tracked down the owner of a class ring, and somehow made contact with the person. The person said "Mail it to such & such address" (because they were across the state from each other). The md'r said "send me the postage cost, or a SASE package at least". The owner said "if you don't mail it to me, I'm calling the police, because you have my property afterall". Can you believe it??
Another time, a friend of mine was hunting the beach, and a person came up to them asking for help finding a ring. My friend stopped what he was doing, and went to the other end of the beach, and spent nearly an hour scouring the area where the ring was supposed to have been lost. Meanwhile, the person who had enlisted his help, merely had gone back to playing volleyball with his college buddies. After an hour of work, and finally finding it, my friend came to interupt their game, and show the person the ring. The guy merely snatched it out of his hands, exclaimed with glee "that's it!", and ran back to continue to his game. My friend never got a thankyou or anything, and had just spent an hour of his time searching for this guy, in an area/part of the beach he had no intention of hunting that day.
Of course, we hope those ingrate stories are the exception.
Some of you people tuning down reward money r simply nuts. Look at the price of ur detector and the time u put in lookin for stuff. Some say "oh the joy is the reward" give me a break we all know money talks and BS walks no ones turning money down
Some of you people tuning down reward money r simply nuts. ...........no ones turning money down
It's a local highschool and lots of people know the guy, he has a record longer than my arm, he was in prison last anyone
knew. Not the kind of person I would care to offer it back or even let know I found it. I may just keep it awhile, seems the metal detecting hobby dosen't pay off in every case.
Let me remind all of you... The OP already knows who it belongs to (or has conferred with those who know of him). That's the difference here. I think he's kind of scared of the guy, because he has a record and may or may not be in prison.
I'm interested to know what the OP meant by this statement?--
"I may just keep it awhile, seems the metal detecting hobby doesn't pay off in every case."
The only way I would keep it (to sell immediately) after knowing who it belongs to is... if I was living paycheck to paycheck, a month away from homelessness and needed the money to help pay a bill or feed myself.
Luckily i'm 3 months away from homelessness, so i'm good to go!