The cat is a stray...Ocacat is what people here have told me (pics and comments in Daily Pics forum)....I'm on The Bruce Peninsula..google it if you like, not far from U.S. border middle of the Great Lakes.
No but I've tried to get him to join. I'm always showing him posts here and he knows some of the guys who know other guys that go to Civil War shows here,in Georgia,and in Virginia.Yes he found the bullets and various items.They're few and far between here unless you study it really well and he doesn't.
I like Beebs in the I wanna slap the cuteness out of him kind of way,lol.Both my mom and my dad have always been really healthy and I think that has helped them beat some stuff that gets others down.i'm glad your wife is feeling better and can put this behind her one day. She needs to be able to keep you in check.