I NEED YOUR HELP; IM GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

[Teprock]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Hi, I'm 24 years old and I've only been on one date in my life, and that was when I was 19! Maybe I am too shy or something, as I prefer metal detecting and baseball cards over chasing girls. Give your nerdy friend some advice before I ruin this rare opportunity for me :roll:



Thanks Folks, Teprock 4-10-04 Saturday

 

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[zenith82]

Good luck!

Teprock,

Congratulations! At least you have a date. I'm 22 going on 23 and it's been a long time for me as well. Longer than it has for you actually. The last time I had a true date was when I was 16. Seems like ladies around my age these days don't like a guy who metal detects, restores old radios, works on cars, and is an engineer (all of which describe me).

As for ruining the opportunity, don't worry about it. If anything is meant to happen, it will. Never change who you are for someone else.

Tom

 

[midus1]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

True Ok Fat Boy.
Teprock, just be yourself. If she likes you she does if she doesn't find another one,

HH

 

[Orien]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

congrats buddy,

the only advice i have is make the date about her. Girls want guys to be interested in them. they love it when you ask them questions.(dont get to personal, just friendly questions). In turn she will want to know about you.

Just my two cents worth,
Chris

 

[MDnoob]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

1)Just don't worry about it and be casual. Women can smell fear.

2)Don't forget to open doors for her, etc.

3) Don't bring the metal detector. (maybe on the 2nd date)

 

[IronMike]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

That's all good advice except for the whip thing, that is after you get married. LOL
Micheal

 

[Teprock]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Thanks for the advice, folks! Any more advice would be appreciated!!!

 

[Lowbatts]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

You've got to watch an episode of Queer Eye For The Detector Guy. The Fab Five know all about women. They can help you dress, groom, cook, clean and become a well, better man.....

Flowers, something picked, not bought. From someone else's property. Don't show her any of your tattoos from Bangkok until after you've paid for dinner and drinks. Keep your probe in the toolbox. Don't go to any of the current movies. Symphony with white wine, please.

 

[Teprock]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Queer Eye for the STR8 Guy? No Way! I think dating should be all about compromises--I pick a place one date and she picks the place the next time. As for the date...


It went okay. We went dancing at her school, ate at a fancy restaurant called Baxter's, then I made out with her in her car, even though her mom was watching us from out her window It was FUN, FUN, FUN and I think I'm obsessed! But it's all about compromises. Thanks for the advice LowBatts and Beckrock--More advice please! ~

 

[DrewShade]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

The 3 essentials, Scented Candels, massage oil and Barry White.....need I say more??

 

[Highmountain]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

"Better to go live alone in the wilderness than to try to live with a contentious woman." I think that's Proverbs. Dating's where it all starts.

Good luck, chum.

 

[Teprock]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Thanks Jack and friends! I hope my girl Catie is as good as GOLD

She likes Bon Jovi, Tom Brady, and platinum too. I'll let her watch Tom Brady football games at home, but as for the Bon Jovi and platinum, unless she chips in $150 for the gasoline and tix or $900/ounce, she ain't getting any Bon Jovi or platinum!



What is your advice for our second date? Where should I take her this Saturday night? Should I go faster than first base (I really want to make it to second, like Derek Jeter's position for the New York Yankees).


...TOO FAST OR TOO COOL? Thanks in advance

 

[coinshooter]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Take her out detecting. Let her dig your coins and tell her when you get enough, you'll take her out to a good dinner at McDonalds. That's what I told my wife and she's still trying to earn my Big Mac lol to this day!

 

[Lowbatts]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Can't help you out much, as a former pimp and neighborhood enforcer dating was not my forte. My idea of a good date took about 6 minutes if the local surveilance team were watching, less if they were otherwise occupied. Bartered my wife from da Polish mob for a little work I did for dem guys over der.

 

[Carl-NC]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Here are some casual questions you can try:

"Do you prefer concentric, or double-D?"

If she didn't stand up and leave,

"Do you usually wear kneepads, and if so, what brand?"

If she hasn't slapped you,

"Would you like to see my Sharpshooter? It has the 12-inch head."

Assuming you can still speak,

"What kind of probe do you think penetrates the best, with the least potential for damage: brass, or stainless steel?"

If a tourniquet is not yet needed,

"Do you think if I apply more power, that my GP Extreme will go deeper?"

If you've made it this far, and still have a pulse, she has potential. If she actually answered the questions in the proper context, she's a perfect match.

Or, you can play it safe, and not breathe a word of metal detecting, and pray she never finds out. Then if, perchance, you ever want to break it off, bring it up.

- Carl

 

[MDnoob]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

LOL carl!!

 

[lab rat]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Whatchout when you ever find a gold ring-- it will be hers, not yours! The better half of your treasures will be usurped! If you can live with that, keep chasing her! :lol:

 

[DrewShade]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

Take her to Wendys fo the second date and buy her a frosty, but give her only a straw. If she can drink the frosty through the straw she is a keeper..

 

[bakergeol]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

For your second date- Take her out to a fine restaurant and then invite her back to your place to watch a movie. Offer her drinks. Rent a romantic movie- I recommend "Somewhere in time". Tell her that this movie is one of your favorites. You need to establish that you are a serious and romantic guy.

LOL George

 

[Lowbatts]

I NEED YOUR HELP; I'M GOING ON MY FIRST REAL DATE IN YEARS!!

It's like a little slice of hte love help line around here. Seriously though, you need to check your thoughts. Desire, passion, all that will screw you up! Unless it is appropriately channeled through your coil.

Get to know who you are seeing as a person, don't even think about making out, necking, first second base, etc.. If this person has compatible traits then you will find more than enough time for that in years to come with any good luck. You want to see first or second base? Take her to a baseball game. Hey good luck with all sincerity you sound like hte nice young man many of us wish we had been...... or wish our daughters knew..... rizemfrasemaratta arghhh