You could do a quick "back of envelope" calculation to get a general idea.
Imagine a standard US quarter that is covered in 50 micron gold plate. That means there is 0.005 cm of gold plating on the whole thing. Going back to your old geometry, you can calculate the surface area of the quarter to be approximately 26 square cm. So the total volume of "surface" gold would be around 0.06 cc's. The density of gold is 19.3g per cc. So the total weight of the gold is 1.158g. That assumes pure 24k gold has been used for the gold plating which is probably not the case so you will need to multiply by an appropriate factor.
If the price of gold is currently $47 per gram, you'd have about $55 worth of gold on that quarter. Again, it probably wouldn't be pure gold. Also, the refiner is going to take his chunk. You could get more or less but the numbers above are meant to give you a general idea.
20 micron would of course give you only 40% of what 50 micron would give you so that same quarter might be worth around $22.
The FTC has guidelines for how thin gold can be on jewelry:
classification - microns
"gold flash" (10 kt.) = .175 microns
"gold electroplate" = .175 microns
"gold plate" = .50 microns
"heavy gold plate" = 2.5 microns
So you can see above that even something called "heavy gold plate" at 2.5 microns would only have $2.75 worth of gold on it (for that same quarter). 50 microns is a VERY thick layer of gold from what I can tell. I'd be worried that this guy was not giving you a straight story or was confused and the items were actually .50 microns. In which case they wouldn't be worth much at all.
These calculations could be VERY wrong because I am just starting to study plated gold. Hopefully someone who really knows what they are talking about can enlighten us both and tell me if I'm way off base. True 50 micron gold plating would be worth scrapping in my opinion if you can get a good price on it.