Here is where we will disagree. Thousands of articles and books have been written ,on the life of Jesse James...some fact ,some fantasy. So each of us? just has to? believe what we want based on our own research .
I personally believe that Jesse James would never leave his wife,children,mother and family.
And just out of curiousity, who do you think was? shot that day by Bob Ford? Bigelow?? From all known photos, it certainly resembles Jesse.And what , that wasnt Jesses wife either that resembled her either.
Plus the that Jesse's own child went on to write a book later in life. But no one mentions that one, because its based on facts.
Yes I did read the Del Schrader book....and had a good long laugh. Did you notice when reading it , that Mr Schrader disputed a large amount of historical facts, without providing any proof to back up any of his theories...
Mr Schrader states that Jesse James took the name Dalton, his mothers maiden name.....which it was not, it was Cole.They had cousins by the name of Dalton. Frank Dalton who went on to say he was jesse for many years made many many false claims and was known to be a fantastic liar.For instance, when asked if Jesse?s mother Zerelda Cole married Reverend Robert James in Kentucky, Dalton replied that his mother was from Dalton, Georgia, and her maiden name was Mollie Dalton and his father was Major George S. James
I think Schrader took alot of his theories about Jesse from a book written by Henry J Walker. In 1949, Walker met with J. Frank Dalton in Meramec Caverns, Missouri, and conducted a series of interviews, later writing a book in 1961, which he titled Jesse James "The Outlaw. This too was also filled with alot of unproven guesses. He even got the color of Jesse's eyes wrong.
Anyway...this could go on forever. As I stated above, we each have to learn by our own research and fact sorting.
Best of luck on your search.