Arizona Bob
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I need some different opinions.
My sister (recently widowed) has a new boyfriend. Surprise! They are flying home this week so the new boyfriend (everyone calls him Golum- not his legal name) can ask Mom for her hand in marriage. Yea!
The ONLY problem I have with him, is that of his nickname (Golum). I asked her several times what his legal name is, and she manages to be evasive and change the subject. Red flag #1. Maybe it's a "guy thing", but it really irks me that a guy can't/won't give out his legal name. (Red flag #2) I have never met him- spoke on the phone a couple of times.
Sister has a fair amount of assets- insurance from hubby #1, house & land paid off, nice ride, money in the bank, etc.
Am I being overly suspicious? Should I just forget about it?
Can you suggest a smooth way to get him to state his legal name?
My sister (recently widowed) has a new boyfriend. Surprise! They are flying home this week so the new boyfriend (everyone calls him Golum- not his legal name) can ask Mom for her hand in marriage. Yea!
The ONLY problem I have with him, is that of his nickname (Golum). I asked her several times what his legal name is, and she manages to be evasive and change the subject. Red flag #1. Maybe it's a "guy thing", but it really irks me that a guy can't/won't give out his legal name. (Red flag #2) I have never met him- spoke on the phone a couple of times.
Sister has a fair amount of assets- insurance from hubby #1, house & land paid off, nice ride, money in the bank, etc.
Am I being overly suspicious? Should I just forget about it?
Can you suggest a smooth way to get him to state his legal name?