While there is no 100% accurate way of finding gold, there are ways to increase the odds without digging every bit a trash.
I run with my discrimination pretty much wide open. I only reject iron. I prefer to hear, and see, everything that is in the ground, because it helps me to determine what I'm dealing with. Just as a dime or quarter is pretty easy to identify by its display characteristics, so is some standard trash. Those pesky pull tabs for example.
When I first get to a site I will recover pretty much everything at first until I find the trash pattern. If I find a site that is littered with pull tabs, and I find they read either a 21 to 24 and 26 to 28, then I simply ignore those numbers and dig everything else. doesn't guarantee you won't mis any gold, but it will increase you odds substantially.
My experience has been like Monty's. I have yet to ever dig gold above 21 on my DFX. Chains from 01 to 03 and rings/pendents/earrings from 04 to 21, but never any higher. Doesn't mean they don't just that I have yet to see it, and I've found a crap load of gold rings.