Halves box and CWR dimes 5/20-21/11 - Meeting the widow!

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Sorry I didn't post sooner, the internet was the furthest thing in mind as I was battling the pain of a kidney stone.

I started searching a box of halves late friday night and finished at nearly 1 AM saturday morning. It was skunk #18 in a row for me, but did have some NIFC's. A pair of 2003D, a 2008D, and a 2010P.

As I started in on the CWR dimes I had picked up thursday, I felt a dull ache in my lower back, so I decided to lay down for a bit. By 3 AM I was in so much agony that I decided to drive myself to the hospital. I suspected it was a kidney stone due to imaging results a few months back that turned up a 2mm stone in my left kidney and a 5mm stone in my right kidney. This was confirmed by a CT scan, a 3mm stone was identified midway from kidney to bladder. I managed to get an hour of sleep at the hospital after they loaded me up with a shot of tramadol, the only pain meds they said I could have since I had to drive myself home. After getting back home, loaded up on pain meds, I went back at the CWR dimes, no silver found.

With my favorite teller on vacation, I wasn't going to get called about the widow coming in to dump more of her late hubby's collection. I decided to visit the bank anyways, despite me not feeling well myself. By the time I got there, the other teller had already dumped the widows dimes into the coin machine, so I missed that, but I did manage to get there in time to save a couple of halves. The widow was there, and I could see that she had been crying.

I asked her why she was cashing in her hubbys collection, and she was reluctant to talk about it. She finally told me that she really needed the money for groceries since her income from social security was nearly cut in half after her hubby passed. I told her that I can relate, as exactly the same thing happened to me after my wife passed. The widows benefits that they pay to the surviving spouse comes out of the surviving spouses benefits, dollar for dollar. So they reduce your own benefits by exactly the same amount as they pay you from your deceased spouses benefits.

I offered her $10 each for the two halves she was about to cash in and she perked up a bit and smiled. I handed her a $20 bill. One half was a 1957 Ben and the other a 1964 Ken. I told her that I was a coin collector and I offered to pay her more for his coins than the bank would cash them in for. I don't know if she'll call, as she had seemed to be emotionally distraught about the whole prospect of cashing in his coins. I'm just hoping that she does, rather than dumping them for face value at the bank like she's been doing.

I know what some of you will say, it was counter-productive on my part to do this, but I've felt really bad about knowing that she's been only getting face value for what she's been cashing in.

Bob
 

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You make me proud to consider myself part of this community alongside you. You're a good man, and anyone that thinks otherwise is here for the wrong reason.
 

I agree. That's a kind gesture. You get a big :icon_thumright: from me!
 

It's always good to hear about people who value generosity and kindness over metal value. You are great and probably brightened her day, if only a little. Wonderful story. Good luck to you.
 

Wonderful gesture :notworthy:

You cannot go wrong helping out a widow :icon_sunny:
 

Heres what you shouldve done:

1. Asked widow out on a date
2. Marry Widow
3. ?!?!?!?!?!
4. Inherit all the husbands coins
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brendan1414, that would only work if he outlives the widow. Who knows how many husbands she has had.

I think you did a very good thing. I have tried to buy peoples coins from them a couple of times. One gentleman was trying to get a bank teller to give him a bag to bring his coins back in. He was 90 and said he had a shoebox full. Alot of "Indian nickels and half dimes". Along with other coins. I went to visit him about a week after I gave him my number, but he wanted to go thur the box first. I didn't pressure him and I never got a call back either. Another fellow was spending Walkers, Franklins. and Kennedys on 12 packs of beer, where I work and I told him I would give him a far price for them. But he never brought any in, although he did mention it the next time I saw him.

So good luck, and I hope she contacts you. I am more of a collector myself and I hate to see these people losing out, because they are uninformed. Especially when it is a large quantity and their need is great.
 

Good going Bob. Hope this kindness comes back to you ten fold. Tough luck on the boxes of halves. HH Doug
 

Bob,
You certainly did the right thing. Showed a lot of class on your part.
The "silver Gods" will shine down on you as well as Rich.
Great job.
rileyboy
R.I.P.Rich
 

Class act.

I hope your stones pass unnoticed. OR the painkillers are good enough.

Get well soon.
 

Thank you all for your kind words. I hope she calls too. I would love to give her a fair price, even if it is for a few coins at a time to make it easier on her emotionally.

I'm still in a pain-killer induced fog, doing more sleeping than anything else. I don't have any boxes or rolls of coin to go through while waiting for this kidney stone to pass, but at least I can get caught up with reading posts here. I keep dozing off while reading, so it's taking a while.

Bob
 

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