Weight is not useful for this since there is no way to calculate the volume efficiently, thus we can't determine mass. What you have to understand is that the weight of many, many metals that this could be are within about 10% of one another. If either the scale is slightly off or your estimation of volume is off, it could mean the difference between calling it iron or nickel or silver or zinc, etc, etc. It isn't difficult to build up 10% of error variance when trying to determine the metal this way.
The pattern you are observing is, in my mind, the result of whatever the blob of metal was on top of when it melted, which in this case appears to have been some type of cloth. The cloth got toasted and turned black (hence why it is easy to scrape off) and left behind what looks quite a bit like the pattern of machine-woven fabric.
Either way, you'll have to do an acid test or something. I can't see any way around it for this particular object.
Just my thoughts. I personally hope you have a silver nugget, but without testing it properly, we can't know.
-mcl