SL, I commend you on your trial & error approach to understand the application of physics to Electronic LRL configurations. If our minds are open and not boxed in by self proclaimed text book experts, we can all learn from your experiments.
I have field tested a number of complex, totally electronic discrimination LRL's, over the years with ranges repeatedly tested from an aircraft of up to 300 miles distance.
I have field tested hundreds of LRL configurations of LRL's over multiple types of terrain and atmospheric conditions. I do not pretend to know how, or why these devices work, but I know when they work, or do not work according to a large variety of configurations and conditions in which I have field tested these devices.
Without getting into detail, I would suggest your transmit antenna will work more efficiently if you stand it vertically. You will however loose a portion of the signal at the side edges of the Antenna. Good Luck! Dell