Boy, I sure know how it is.
This mother DID get some revenge though.
After my daughter graduated, she met the man who is now her husband, and they got their first apartment together. We were invited to a "christening" dinner.
I knocked on her door, threw off my shoes, threw my coat on the table, went into her kitchen, opened her refrigerator, and grabbed the first thing I saw (I think it was a hot wing). I looked at my daughter, and she had the most horrified look on her face - with Rich (my son-in-law) also giving me a strange look.
She said "Mom, what ARE YOU DOING

?" I told her "Theresa, I've been waiting for 23 years to be able to do this in YOUR house" My son-in-law ended up on the floor laughing so hard she was really getting ticked off at him. She finally got it, though, and started laughing herself. I was going to do it to my boys, but, she warned them ahead of time - but, it was priceless.

Payback is..........sweet!
Beth