Slowed down by cancer

Tiredman

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My wife has cancer for the second time, this time they say it is terminal. Our last few books might not get released, she does the formatting and we combine on things like corrections and such. But she asks the same questions several times a day and so I take that as a bad sign. Today's doctor appointments were missed, I got her there, but once in the wheel chair she said it was too much pain so we headed home. I am thinking of taking Family Medical Leave act again, I was on it but think I came off it to soon.
So that is an insight to my grouchiness.
 

CalReg

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My heart breaks for you and your wife. Cancer is so messed up! Live each minute of every day with love and give thanks to the Lord for your gifts!
 

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IMAUDIGGER

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I’m sorry to hear that.
Dang it..I have a friend that’s been in the hospital dealing with that for the last month.

Both of you hang in there and try to find something positive in this world, even if it’s small.
 

smallfoot

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You have my prayers also!
 

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I am so sorry to hear of the returning cancer. I will pray this evening for you and your wife.
 

SusanMN

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I am so sorry. There is no playbook to get through this. Just let your heart tell you what you need to do.
 

PetesPockets55

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So sorry to hear about your wife's illness.

Find some time to spend together doing nothing, but holding each other.
 

flyadive

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Tired......., dying is as much a part of life as being born.........again.
With all the universe out there , has got to be something better than this here on this planet!
There is more to come . We can’t comprehend it yet but there is something better to come. We shall all meet our fate sooner than later. It’s ok though .
I can feel the force within.
its another sense ....the 14 th sense.
Make the most out of our time now .
Take family leave.
It won’t kill you.
Good luck Pal.
 

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Tiredman

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Yes, most fear dying. My beiefs are not what is taught in church.
 

old digger

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Sorry to hear about your wife, I will keep her in my prayers. We all have our trials and tribulations, but there is Hope.
 

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Stay strong, take the family medical leave, and enjoy every minute with your wife. You both are in my prayers.
 

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