Iron Patch,
I understand what you are saying - what I'm trying to get across is sportsmanship. Especially in things like the Olympics, you are not just competing for yourself, you are competing with others from your country. If someone is brought up with a family who believes in "being all you can be", then, most of the time, I would think, as long as you do your best, you can be happy, even if its not first place. Those are the best of the best out there - you cannot change the outcome after its over - the character of those athletes are reflected by the fact that they KNOW how much everyone put into that day, and understand what it means for them to win. You can be unhappy with yourself, but still be happy for someone who is, on that particular day and time, was better than you.
Several years ago, at an Olympic event - boxing I think it was, a certain country was - how should I say it - less than honorable, when they lost - they had protests and fights, etc. - and what did most people think of them - not very much.
No matter who you are, you've got to admire the person who pulled it off. Not to mention the fact that, for most of what someone calls "loser", there will be a learning experience there.
One thing is for sure - when you count up the winners of each country, at the end of the Olympics, Americans will be counting the silver and bronze medals along with those gold medals.
B