coingairl300 said:
HI.New here. I am 26. I live in warren county NJ. I work as a produce clerk at a local food store in my area.I have been metal detecting for 3years now. I like to do relic,hunting and coin hunting to.I love to read a bout local history and wold history as well.I have a Question. What is the best way to approach some one about geting permisoin to hunt on there property?
P.S Any one here for NJ?
Priscilla
First, pick a good time to approach the property owners. Don't arrive at dinnertime. If anyone is outside the property ask them if they are the owners and if they are not, ask them who the owners are and if they live on the property. Once you have that info, or you're talking to the owner, whip out a handful of modern CLAD coins and tell them that this is what you've found so far and you're hoping to find older coins, don't say silver or gold. Volunteer to show them your finds once they give you permission and tell them they can keep their favorite coin or whatever. And guarantee them that you will not dig unsightly holes and leave the area looking like a warfield. If possible, get yourself a probe and learn to retrieve items WITHOUT digging a hole if the item is no deeper than, say, 5"-6". And if you have to dig a hole, make it the same width as the target if a coin is indicated on your meter.
Here's the sticky part: you may have to be dishonest and lie. If you find something of value, or a silver coin that YOU want to keep, don't show it to them, show them only the other uninteresting stuff. If you can't veer from honesty then, of course, show them everything and let them keep whatever they select.
If you don't want to give up old or silver coins, always have a dirty clad coin in your hands to substitute because you may not be aware of a person standing near you watching you and seeing what you retrieve. I saw a young man outside his '20s house and I asked him if I could search his backyard and he said yes and took me to it. It was really a patch of bare dirt about 5' square. I found a silver Washington quarter which I wanted to keep but he was standing right next to me and when he saw it and asked me for it I had to give it up. The only silver I found that day. Afterwards, I thought: "When I saw the silver coin in the hole, why didn't I ask him to get me a glass of water so while he was gone I could have substituted the silver quarter for a clad one."
The above are considerations, not de rigueur behaviour. If you're dealing with old folks, or their relatives, and it looks like they've been living in the house for many years or all of their life, whatever you find could have been lost by them or their family members so you would only be giving back what they lost. But if it's young people, then they must have moved in way after whatever you found was lost so you make the call whether to gift them or yourself.
Whatever decision you make don't feel guilty afterwards if you thought that you made the wrong decision. You can always go back and do the right thing. I never found myself in a situation such as I described but I did learn it just in case.
Silver Fox