Mrs. Bloom,
Glad he is home, safe and sound. I've been biting nails since 9/11, because almost all my nieces and nephews and my son, were in the service (my son was a 'lifer' and just got out this past May). Only one has not had to go to Iraq or Afghanistan, and my son went to many other places, being a higher rank, and being in so much longer. I'm so glad his 24 years are up.
My niece, the one in the picture actually has her own home and she was saying awhile back that when she had an interview for a job, and they asked her what she was qualified to do (she is a generator mechanic, supposedly, though she has never been used in her line of work), she just asked them what kind of work they had for a woman who could fix generators and break a man's neck with one hand
She takes it all very well - too well. Her last deployment must have been bad, because I got a letter from her telling me that she was glad I had been in her life, and she loved us, etc. I think it had something to do with the fact that, after going out on a mission, when they got back to base, her tent, and half the area had been bombed. That's all I have ever been able to get her to say. Even now - when she is not searching Iraqi women for bombs and ieds, and is still on American soil, I fear for all these soldiers who have been, not only to war, but, for so many times and for so long.
I remember my brother-in-law's brother-in-law - Vietnam - they upped together, they volunteered together for 2 deployments (18 months each, if you upped for 2 tours, you got out when you were done, instead of having to do the fourth year). They both made it through - my brother-in-law was a photographer for the Marines, camera in one hand, rifle in the other, I cannot remember his brother-in-laws MO. When they both got back, safe and sound, we threw a big party. (about a week after they got back). The next day, he (not my brother-in-law), committed suicide, and I remember how he was "taking it so well" - back then - when my brother-in-law was having a few issues. And --- it scares me. I want her to be ok. She is strong - but, she also cannot keep it bottled up. I hope she is talking to someone.
My step-son has been in Afghanistan for 3 tours - he is there now. (just went back for his third a month or so ago.).
Beth