Nails? Manicured? Girly-Girl look? Ha, Ha, Ha....
First off...I do so much typing, nails get in my way! I paid to have those fake nails put on before! OMG...what a joke! They were so long, I was pecking at the keyboard one finger at a time. Without long nails, I type 78 WPM! Within the week, I had soaked those babies OFF my fingers!! And they do more damage to your nails when you take them off, esp for those who wear them LONG TERM!!!
My nails grow to a certain length and when they obstruct my ability to type, I make them short again, not stubs, but enough that I am comfortable enough!!! I guess alot of that stems from my Navy days too. Females are not authorized to wear nails longer than 1/4" above the tip of the finger!! But I guess in today's times, the Navy Regs are not being enforced anymore by the looks of some of these females nails! And make-up is to compliment your complexion, not the prostitute on the corner!!! For the majority of females in the Navy, they abide by the Dress Code, but there are those that feel they are above it and it makes the rest of us look bad!!!
You go girl!!!
I've never been one of those girly-girls....I love wearing blue jeans, t-shirts and sneakers!!! I like to dress up once in a blue moon (i.e., going to a wedding or something like that)....but manicured nails...I don't need to impress anyone. I am who I am and I love who I am, if they don't, well, what can I say, they are missing out on a friendship over my non-manicured nails!!!
And when someone makes a negative comment to me (about me), well, I just smile and say, "Aw Thanks, that's the sweetest comment I have heard in awhile. So kind of you to take notice of my presence!" So Help Me God, I do and the look is PRICELESS! LMAO!!! I guess age has made me ... somewhat ... sarcastic!!! heheehehehe
I'm 52, not 22! I want to look good for me, take care of my health for me, NOT for my hubby, my kids, my siblings, noone....for ME!!! If I am not happy with whom I am...how do I expect others to be?
And if my nails get dirt under them...OMG...my world will come crashing down!!! LOL...I just clean my hands and then clean under the tip and off I go!!! I don't use gloves when I metal detect...I can't stand anything on my hands, I need to feel the dirt. Gloves obstruct my ability to dig...weird huh? LOL
So tough-witties on those that don't like my nails, or if I decide to not wear make-up 24/7, choose not to wear designer clothes...I LOVE ME!!!
I see these young girls at work that spend half their pay checks on hair, nails, clothes that I tell them...."You just wait deary, when you start having babies, you will realize what's more important, your weekly manicure or milk for your baby!"
It's ok to pamper yourself from time to time, to feel like a woman, but come on.... Be the wonderful person you are and not what others expect you to be!!!
Heck, the first time my hubby made a comment on my hair ... I told him, "Are you wearing it? I wear it the way I like it, not the way you like it!" Sorry if that is harsh, but that's me...love me or don't!! There's the door if you want a pampered, spoiled, all about her girl!!!
So, to HELL with what others say, come back with a response that will floor them and go about your merry way. BE HAPPY WITH WHOM YOU ARE!!!
BTW, that lady that spent 800 bucks to loose weight...tell her to pick up a detector....it's a cheaper way to keep the weight off...that's how I lost alot of weight!!! Great exercise (walking, bending, stretching!!!)