Bottom line Tim....it's her property and she can do with it what she likes!! I agree with you on one point though...sounds like she is a drama queen, but that's just her personality....
And her right.........I have thrown people off my property who were fishing in the lake behind my property. Lake is not on my property but the only way to fish behind my house is through my gate and my property due to the dense brush which contains thorn bushes..... I mow down to the lake as the lot behind my house is underwater most of the year so no one can build on it..