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Erik, I haven't read all the other replies to this point, but here's my take: I disagree with those who say you should never have gone back and tried again. I have .... on occasion, tried more than once, and have INDEED gotten someone to reconsider. It's not impossible. Although yes, you might continue to get a "no". Even a rude one. Those people here who are saying things like "you should have understood that no meant no" and "what part of no don't you understand", are falling victim to the following pyschology: They are seeing this in slow-motion replay, so OF COURSE it's easy to say what they're saying. If it had gone the other way, and the fellow had had a change of heart, those SAME people would be saying: "see? it doesn't hurt to try. congradulations!". doh!
Kind of like when we all watch NFL. When a key play happens against our team (an interception, a fumble, etc...) we all groan, right? And SURE ENOUGH, the slow motion replay comes up, and the sportcaster will invariably show how a receiver on the left side of the field was totally open. But instead, the quarterback threw to another receiver who was better covered, and got intercepted. So what do we all do when we see that slow-motion replay?? We shout: "That stupid quarterback should have thrown left, NOT right". See what geniuses we are? Heck, WE should be the quarterback, since we are seeing what that quarterback was too stupid to see. It's a plain as the nose on your face, when you watch it in slow motion replay, right? You see the trick why it's easy for someone to say "what a dumb move for you to go back and ask 2x". They're falling victim to this 20-20 hindsight trick.
Tom_in_CA it's just my sense. Call it hindsight but it's foresight. Let's not overthink the matter here. For all anybody knows, that guy may have had his ass handed to him for letting people on property in the past, stolen tools. etc, and he's tired of it. Why do we learn as children that No is No, then get butthurt when somebody gets pissed to have to tell you again?
Tom_in_CA it's just my sense. Call it hindsight but it's foresight. Let's not overthink the matter here. For all anybody knows, that guy may have had his ass handed to him for letting people on property in the past, stolen tools. etc, and he's tired of it. Why do we learn as children that No is No, then get butthurt as adults when someone has to tell you what you were already told, again.
Well of course Tom... If the story would have been different the answers he got would have been different.... But he got as rude to the owner as the owner was to him .......... BUT then he tried to get the guy in trouble with a government agency............... That is not a good thing to do That is what got me PO because he did something like that.........I can gaurantee you guys that if the OP's answer had been a story of the victory of persistence, NO ONE would have come on here saying "you shouldn't have tried that 2nd time". It's all the trick of slow-motion replay at work, that causes us to think we "knew better all along", blah blah
Oneshot, how much you wanna make a bet, that if the OP's post had .... instead .... been finished with the owner having a change-of-heart, that you would have been amongst those saying: "atteboy. congrat's. nice p/r work. good going", etc.... It's only because of the outcome to the contrary, that it becomes easy for you to say "no, it's forsight". Why? Because you're looking at the end result of this particular case, and ....... SURE, anyone can do what you're doing, and say "you shouldn't have done that". Do you see the psychological trick your mind is playing on you?
Is anyone getting this ?
I can gaurantee you guys that if the OP's answer had been a story of the victory of persistence, NO ONE would have come on here saying "you shouldn't have tried that 2nd time". It's all the trick of slow-motion replay at work, that causes us to think we "knew better all along", blah blah
Oneshot, how much you wanna make a bet, that if the OP's post had .... instead .... been finished with the owner having a change-of-heart, that you would have been amongst those saying: "atteboy. congrat's. nice p/r work. good going", etc.... It's only because of the outcome to the contrary, that it becomes easy for you to say "no, it's forsight". Why? Because you're looking at the end result of this particular case, and ....... SURE, anyone can do what you're doing, and say "you shouldn't have done that". Do you see the psychological trick your mind is playing on you?
Is anyone getting this ?
However no means no and not maybe......
Tom_in_CA it's just my sense. Call it hindsight but it's foresight. Let's not overthink the matter here. For all anybody knows, that guy may have had his ass handed to him for letting people on property in the past, stolen tools. etc, and he's tired of it. Why do we learn as children that No is No, then get butthurt as adults when someone has to tell you what you were already told, again.
I can gaurantee you guys that if the OP's answer had been a story of the victory of persistence, NO ONE would have come on here saying "you shouldn't have tried that 2nd time". It's all the trick of slow-motion replay at work, that causes us to think we "knew better all along", blah blah
Oneshot, how much you wanna make a bet, that if the OP's post had .... instead .... been finished with the owner having a change-of-heart, that you would have been amongst those saying: "atteboy. congrat's. nice p/r work. good going", etc.... It's only because of the outcome to the contrary, that it becomes easy for you to say "no, it's forsight". Why? Because you're looking at the end result of this particular case, and ....... SURE, anyone can do what you're doing, and say "you shouldn't have done that". Do you see the psychological trick your mind is playing on you?
Is anyone getting this ?