I had my eye on a house for a long time and finally caught the owner outside cutting grass one evening. I stopped to ask and spent 45 minutes in conversation before I finally asked the question. Meanwhile, I discovered that we attend the same church (30 miles away!), knew many of the same people and had other things in common. When I finally told him what I stopped for, permission was enthusiastically granted. Three other old properties adjacent were volunteered to me while I searched the first property. I ended up finding quite a bit, including an 1854 Seated Liberty quarter. Had I not gotten up the courage to ask, I wouldn't have ended up with four sites to hunt AND NEW FRIENDS.