Insulted

[frogwizard]

I have been coming to this site for awhile now. It is a very informative and mostly friendly site. The knowledge of it's people is outstanding. But I, and others like me, have been called "Freeloaders". I tried to contribute to the forums by helping to identify items and helping people when I could. I am not a charter member. I wish I could be a charter member of all the sites I enjoy. But I can't. I have enjoyed being here and would like to thank all who helped me. I will not be using any more of your bandwidth with my posts. I have never in my life been called a freeloader, and I will not be one here anymore. So to all of you, I thank you for the knowledge and the laughs. I will miss you all. Sincerely, Frogwizard.

 

[shaun7]

If your talking about what I think you are, it was said in jest and I'm sure no offence was meant

 

[jeff of pa]

frogwizard

As Moderator here, Let me say
You do NOT Need to be a charter member
to Enjoy TreasureNet

& AS far as I'm concerned Every Member here is Equal.

My Personal Request is that you Reconsider
& accept My apology
For Whoever Called you a Freeloader.

You are Also welcome To PM
Me & Discuss this if you Wish !

JEFF

 

[jeff of pa]

Account is awaiting approval for deletion

I Want these types of Comments to End now
Whether Joking or not

Hopefully He will Come back
& Give us another Chance !

Please Report any Commemnts on TNet
against Non Charter Members so I Can remove Them.

 

[CRUSADER]

I'll report myself for having a laugh:
http://forum.treasurenet.com/index.php/topic,293379.0.html

No offence meant, I didn't pay for my first year either, & I understand that not everyone can afford it. I treat everyone the same.

It was part of a lighthearted post (which should never have been posted in the What Is It, as it had nothing to ID),

frogwizard,

Not sure why you thought it was directed at you. It was a joke between me & IP who know each other well. He didn't take offence.

However, as I have touched a nerve, I apologise & hope you reconsider this great site.

Jeff,
Happy for you to delete anything you feel fit.

 

[shaun7]

Account is awaiting approval for deletion

I Want these types of Comments to End now
Whether Joking or not

Hopefully He will Come back
& Give us another Chance !

Please Report any Commemnts on TNet
against Non Charter Members so I Can remove Them.

Jeff.

Please don't take this as a challenge to you directly, nor to any directives you may post.
i follow them and will not challenge them.
I respect your judgment on things and understand that sometimes certain things have to been done to preserve order.

I do however think that if someone takes THAT as a reason to leave, that maybe they are just fishing to "be offended" and post this as a way to "get back" at what they perceive as a slight, trying to make shaun7 "pay" for his "insult"?

It seems like the cyber version of a "race card"

That's kinda weak for them to do that.

Nothing to do with me Rando

 

[CRUSADER]

Account is awaiting approval for deletion

I Want these types of Comments to End now
Whether Joking or not

Hopefully He will Come back
& Give us another Chance !

Please Report any Commemnts on TNet
against Non Charter Members so I Can remove Them.

Jeff.

Please don't take this as a challenge to you directly, nor to any directives you may post.
i follow them and will not challenge them.
I respect your judgment on things and understand that sometimes certain things have to been done to preserve order.

I do however think that if someone takes THAT as a reason to leave, that maybe they are just fishing to "be offended" and post this as a way to "get back" at what they perceive as a slight, trying to make shaun7 "pay" for his "insult"?

It seems like the cyber version of a "race card"

That's kinda weak for them to do that.

My fault

 

[timekiller]

Account is awaiting approval for deletion

I Want these types of Comments to End now
Whether Joking or not

Hopefully He will Come back
& Give us another Chance !

Please Report any Commemnts on TNet
against Non Charter Members so I Can remove Them.

Jeff.

Please don't take this as a challenge to you directly, nor to any directives you may post.
i follow them and will not challenge them.
I respect your judgment on things and understand that sometimes certain things have to been done to preserve order.

I do however think that if someone takes THAT as a reason to leave, that maybe they are just fishing to "be offended" and post this as a way to "get back" at what they perceive as a slight, trying to make shaun7 "pay" for his "insult"?

It seems like the cyber version of a "race card"

That's kinda weak for them to do that.

My fault

Cru,buddy I hope this isn't you buddy! Cause I see no wrong I follow you guy's post all the time (Ip,Crusader,etc.) I saw it as you two do with each other all along.You both are great help for all finds but the older ones for sure.I guess what I'm saying is if this was a offense then maybe you could also say that I'm offended because of my pictures I feel I want to post.It takes me alot of shots most of the time to get them all in.Not tring to be a glory hog just the way I have to do it.Bottom line at most a warning but I can't see deletion from TNET for this Deal when I've seen worse.As far as what is it fourm that's what it is for should had been posted somewhere else in my opinion.I don't use it much anyway (what is it) cause just never get much from it as I post but don't come away with much of a answer and have noticed over time from visiting that things get heated often in that part of the forum alot anyway. With all the disagreeing going on.Anyway hope this get's reconsidered.
.(Saying that I'll say this the forum is good when it's used right and the people in it I'ding things for people are great for the time they spend on tring to help others.My stuff most of the time are things that might be not worth the time or to hard to determine what it is as I'll usually try myself purdy hard before posting and that's all go for me.)

 

[jharhed]

Jeff, I commend you for being so personable with members, unlike other places, who really don't care to work out "situations".

 

[olepossum]

freeloader is a very strong word in this country right now with our economy being in the crapper there are a lot of hard working men in this country out of work andhave worked since they were old enough to get a job and now thier wife is working or getting state aid and free loader is like calling a man a sob them is fighting words so lets whatch that word it can be very hurtfull no matter how it is used i dont know how the economy for the working class in the uk is but is stinks here.

 

[CRUSADER]

freeloader is a very strong word in this country right now with our economy being in the crapper there are a lot of hard working men in this country out of work andhave worked since they were old enough to get a job and now thier wife is working or getting state aid and free loader is like calling a man a sob them is fighting words so lets whatch that word it can be very hurtfull no matter how it is used i dont know how the economy for the working class in the uk is but is stinks here.

That is understood.
I you had seen the comment in context, it was clearly a joke directed at a friend I know well who was not offended in any way. If others who were not even involved in the post takes offence of a comment not directed at them, then I have to wonder what anyone can say to anyone. I can read many of these posts & get personally offended on the grounds of ethics & beliefs, but I have the sense enough not to get involved. This was never an insult, its was a clearly understood joke between friends.
If you are telling me I should be more careful about who I joke with then you are intereferring with my free-will. I will always try & not offend & those that know me on here should be able to tell the difference.
If anyone is offended in all this its me for being targetted for something I haven't done. Get it?

 

[Silver Searcher]

freeloader is a very strong word in this country right now with our economy being in the crapper there are a lot of hard working men in this country out of work andhave worked since they were old enough to get a job and now thier wife is working or getting state aid and free loader is like calling a man a sob them is fighting words so lets whatch that word it can be very hurtfull no matter how it is used i dont know how the economy for the working class in the uk is but is stinks here.

That is understood.
I you had seen the comment in context, it was clearly a joke directed at a friend I know well who was not offended in any way. If others who were not even involved in the post takes offence of a comment not directed at them, then I have to wonder what anyone can say to anyone. I can read many of these posts & get personally offended on the grounds of ethics & beliefs, but I have the sense enough not to get involved. This was never an insult, its was a clearly understood joke between friends.
If you are telling me I should be more careful about who I joke with then you are intereferring with my free-will. I will always try & not offend & those that know me on here should be able to tell the difference.
If anyone is offended in all this its me for being targetted for something I haven't done. Get it?

Crusaders a bully and should be BANNED from T.Net

On a more serious note, it's very easy for something said to be taken out of context, if you feel someone has said something that your not happy with, then you should PM that memeber, and just clarify the matter, this could save a lot of greif before things get to the stage of being posted on an open forum.

SS

 

[Marc]

frogwizard

As Moderator here, Let me say
You do NOT Need to be a charter member
to Enjoy TreasureNet

Exactly Jeff, as Admin here, I NEVER look at regular members (non Charter Members) as freeloaders... EVER. I am not sure where this even started.

Marc

 

[Silver Searcher]

frogwizard

As Moderator here, Let me say
You do NOT Need to be a charter member
to Enjoy TreasureNet

Exactly Jeff, as Admin here, I NEVER look at regular members (non Charter Members) as freeloaders... EVER. I am not sure where this even started.

Marc

Might it stem from the sale of T.Net thread I know that's been a bit sticky also

SS

 

[Marc]

This one?

http://forum.treasurenet.com/index.php/topic,282142.msg2022953.html#msg2022953

This should only be visible to Charter Members - and is not set as sticky. Thanks!

 

[Silver Searcher]

This one?

http://forum.treasurenet.com/index.php/topic,282142.msg2022953.html#msg2022953

This should only be visible to Charter Members - and is not set as sticky. Thanks!

Perhaps not sticky Marc, but it seemed to ruffle a few feathers :P

SS

 

[CRUSADER]

This one?

http://forum.treasurenet.com/index.php/topic,282142.msg2022953.html#msg2022953

This should only be visible to Charter Members - and is not set as sticky. Thanks!

no this one, I actually PMed this link to a MOD & said I was happy for you guys to edit as you feel fit.
http://forum.treasurenet.com/index.php/topic,293379.0.html
I can see why it may have been taken out of context but I will let you decide.

This was in the context of me having just encouraged Garabaldi only 2 days previously to join as a chartered member which he did. The freeloader was directed at a friend as a joke.

Marc,
Edit as you feel fit, no offence was meant.

 

[jeff of pa]

I Had already Removed it Because of How it was
Taken.

But left the Quotes As It shows Everyone else took it
as a Joke.

 

[CRUSADER]

I Had already Removed it Because of How it was
Taken.

But left the Quotes As It shows Everyone else took it
as a Joke.

thanks, I'll try & be a little more careful in future. Hopefully those that follow close enough will get a balanced view