Although many readers here already know the following "detailed" Educational information about bullets, I'm providing it for any readers who do not already know it.
Bullet terminology:
Bullet manufacturers (and bullet designers/inventors) say the name for the groove(s) encircling a bullet's body is a cannelure.
Cannelure | Define Cannelure at Dictionary.com
If the groove/cannelure has multiple tiny parallel ridges inside it, it is called a "knurled" or "reeded" cannelure. The photo below shows a bullet which has a knurled/reeded cannelure.
Relic-diggers simply use the term "grooves"... and often, quite incorrectly, they say the grooves are "rings" (as in, a "3-ringer" bullet). But in actuality, a groove is indented, and a ring is raised (like the wedding ring on your finger). For example, a Sharps bullet has rings, and a Gardner has (two) grooves. However, we relic-diggers have been calling bullets a 2-ringer and a 3-ringer for fifty years, so, getting them to change to the correct terms is pretty much hopeless. ;-)
Now, on to identifying Donnie B. from VA's bullets:
Unfortunately, no diameter measurements were given, so I'll have to make my "best guess" about the caliber of the pistol bullets. In the photo showing only two bullets and some buckshot... the upper bullet appears to be a civil war era fired .44 Colt "New-Model" bullet (used by both sides in that war). The other bullet is a fired US .44 Leet-&-Hall bullet.
Identifying the bullets in the other photo:
Top row, the two small-caliber pistol bullets on the left both have a knurled/reeded groove (as shown in the photo below), so they are from no earlier than 1878. They are "probably" from the first half of the 1900s. I should mention for anybody here who doesn't already know, knurled/reeded-groove bullets are still being manufactured today.
Next in the top row is a civil war .577/.58 caliber Gardner Minie-ball. All of that type are Confederate-made. Next is a civil war .52-caliber "Ringtail" Sharps, used by both sides.
Bottom row, at left, is a fired Confederate .44 "Richmond Lab" bullet for revolvers. Some people call it a "Richmond Colt" -- but it could be used in any variety of .44 revolver.
The other six bullets in the bottom row are various versions of "generic" civil war yankee-made .58 caliber 3-groove Minie-bullets. Because no baseview photo shwing the shape of the cavity in their bases was provided, nor a verbal description of it, I cannot say whether any of them are "star-cavity" (Washington DC Arsenal) or Machine-Pressed-&-Turned bullets.