I'm going on Saturday with Digger Girl to metal detect an OLD house with a HUGE yard, orchard, fields, etc. I know in advance that the property owner said that he wanted to keep whatever was found. Now when he
sees the types of things we're finding, he may let us keep part of what we find. That's O.K. by me. Consenting to these terms--and sticking to them--means building trust with owners. And this owner is a good one to build trust with--he knows everyone in town. Now, I'll get photos to keep and post, but if I don't get to keep the items, it's not a big deal. The items really belong to the owner. They're on his property. I wouldn't cut up a dead tree on a person's property and take it home for firewood without consent--even though I worked to cut it down, that doesn't make it "mine." And the tree was likely there long before the current owner bought the property. I see this as a similar situation.
By doing this--and agreeing to stringent terms like this, I've hunted some spots that countless others were turned away from. And it's opened up many doors to new sites that the owners have known about. Now when I go to see him on Saturday, I will take a small display case with me of some old brass relics--suspender clips, tokens, etc., and tell him that these were some of the things that "kind owners" have allowed me to keep in the past--and that they aren't worth anything, but they are still interesting because they tell a story of the past. I would NEVER turn and walk away from someone who wanted to keep what I found. I would Never EVER give a smart-a$$ed quip about the coins staying in the ground or telling them to buy their own detector if I found out that the owner wanted to keep them. EVER! It makes detectorists seem greedy--which is NOT the impression you want to create. The owner just might do that--go out and buy a detector. And then the wonderful "rush" of making a good find is theirs--not mine! Most folks who have some sort of a hobby (other than detecting) spend money on that hobby without ever expecting any prospect of return. It hasn't been that a detectorist could make a living at what they do for a long time--so I think it's time to put away that notion, as well as our Greed, and open ourselves up to other possibilities.
But like I said in my earlier reply to this thread, I think that this approach comes with years of hunting experience. When I was a newbie, I wanted to keep everything... Now, after rolls of Mercury Dimes, I don't mind giving a few away.
If property owners could know how many thousands and thousands of dollars worth of items and relics were Recovered and Kept while hunting on private property since the 60's, we'd never be able to hunt anywhere! It's time to give back.
Just my honest opinion,
Buckleboy