TWO CHOICES

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We just got home from a camping trip in northern michigan. The following is one of the emails we got
while we were gone. It is so good that I want to share it with everyone. I copied it word for word and
it is as follows:

What would you do? You make the choice. don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway.
My question is, "Would you have made the same choice?'

At a fund-raising dinner for a school that serves children with learning disabilities, the father of
one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended.

After extolling the school and it's dedicated staff, he offered a question.

'When not interferred with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection.
Yet my son, Shay cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do.

What is the natural order of things in my son?

The audience was stilled by his query.

The father continued, 'I believe that when a child, like Shay, who was mentally and psysically disabled
comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and comes in the way
other people treat that child.

Then he told the following story.

Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you
think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like shay on their team,
but as a father, I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed
sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy
looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is the eighth inning. I
guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the nineth inning.'

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a
small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.

In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs, but was still behind by three.

In the top of the nineth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in right field. Even though no hits
came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to
ear as I waved to him from the stands.

In the bottom of the nineth inning, Shay's team scored again.

Now with two outs, and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled
to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everybody knew that a hit was all but impossable because Shay
didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less than connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognising that the other team was
putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in
softly so Shay could at least make contact.

The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.

The pitcher again took a few steps foreward to toss the ball softly to Shay.

As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could easily have thrown the ball to the first baseman.

Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first-baseman's head, out of reach of all the
players.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first! Run to first!'

Never in his life had Shay ever run that far but he made it to first base.

He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, 'Run to second! Run to second!'

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base.

By the time Shay rounded toward second base the right fielder had the ball. The smallest guy on their
team, who now had his first chance to be the hero for their team.

He could have thrown the ball to the second baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's
intentions, so he, too threw the ball high over the third baseman's head.

Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the way Shay'

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction
of third base and shouted, 'Run to third'

Shay ran to third. As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and the spectaters were on
their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'

Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won
the game for his team.

"That day," said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams
helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into the world. Shay didn't make it to another summer.
He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home
and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day.


Have a great day.

Ray
 

I have seen this a number of times over the years and hope that at least once it was true ....
 

I don't know how old them boys were but if everybody in this world would be as big as them young
fellows were, the world would be a better place to live in.If a story like that whether it is true or not,
don't bring tears to your eyes you must not have any feelings for children with disabilities.I think
that is a great story everybody should read.
Thanks for sharing it with us. :thumbsup:

fortbball9
 

Hello, Yarrum, It sure is.

truckinbutch, wow! I didn't know that it has been around that long. I too hope it was true, for it
would have been quite a memorable experience for both, the ones that were involved and those that
witnessed it.

plehbah, I don't know about more gunplay, I think it is pretty well written as it is.

forthball9, yes those boys sure had a big heart to do what they did to make him feel like such a hero.
The parents of all of them must have been so proud of them all to show so much heart and compassion.
It would have been a moving thing to observe.

Texas, What a wonderful video you added on here. That was an amazing accomplishment for the boy
in the video. Thanks for sharing it here. Even though some people don't it's possible; sometimes
one of these youngsters will surprise everyone and do something really remarkable. Thanks for
sharing the video.

Thank to all of you who read and took the time to post a comment. I wish you all a good

day and happy hunting,

Ray
 

I work with people like this daily,
The need to be accepted is as strong in these folks as it is in us, maybe more so.
They really don't like to go out as much as we tend to take them,
They don't like to be paraded around, they see themselves much the same way as most people do,
I have been told by many of the higher functioning ones that they feel like freaks on parade when they go out.

I like to take them fishing, biking, riding, shoping (when they will go)
Letting them help with household chores is a must do, they love having jobs that they own.
Giving them their own things to do gives them freedom they wouldn't have otherwise.
That little extra piece of life is so very important. It gives a feeling of equality that we so very often take for granted.

Thanks for posting Ray
sorry about the rant.
Thom
 

Old Dog said:
I work with people like this daily,
The need to be accepted is as strong in these folks as it is in us, maybe more so.
They really don't like to go out as much as we tend to take them,
They don't like to be paraded around, they see themselves much the same way as most people do,
I have been told by many of the higher functioning ones that they feel like freaks on parade when they go out.

I like to take them fishing, biking, riding, shoping (when they will go)
Letting them help with household chores is a must do, they love having jobs that they own.
Giving them their own things to do gives them freedom they wouldn't have otherwise.
That little extra piece of life is so very important. It gives a feeling of equality that we so very often take for granted.

Thanks for posting Ray
sorry about the rant.
Thom
It's not a rant , Thom . What it is is a documentation of your selfless devotion to the folks you
hired on to help .
There is a special place in Heaven reserved for you because of your efforts .
Please don't hasten your arrival at that place by overextending yourself .
 

I'd like to think that at least once that story was true...Thanks for posting it...
It even brought a moistness to my eyes..and I'm an old hard butt...
 

Ashleen, here is some popcorn to help cheer you up for your response. :happy1:

Thom, Like truckinbutch said, it is not a rant. It was a pleasure to read about your work. It
takes a very special person to work with them and give so much of yourself. It looks to me like
you enjoy it and I am sure that the ones that come in contact with you love you very much.
May God bless you for it. thank you for your responses.

truckinbutch, well said

Real de Tayopa, Very nice of you to offer her assistance. LOL

Oldgoat, Yup I know the feeling. I was feeling the same way while I was typing it all out.

Ashleen, It shows that your heart is in the right place.

Thank you for all your replies.


Happy hunting and have a good day.

Ray


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Ray , I'm blushing from the Attaboy . Wondering at the same time if the proposed changes to TNET is going to eliminate this sense of extended community/family we have developed here .
 

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