I was fortunate to be here when this thread started. I hadn't visited since then. I just sat down this morning and read them all.
During the read I felt more and more paranoid for BVI. Reading back today, most all the the pics are actually gone.
This is a normal fellow with experiences just like you and I. Suddenly everyone is looking at him, and predators in this world abound - everybody wants something.
BVI, as far as I'm concerned - you need to reveal nothing further. It is time for you to deal with self protection - it's been that way for pushing 3 years. Prayerfully you are safe and well protected at this point. In life, one of my two oldest and best friends = wasn't.
Protect yourself first. You don't need to entertain us further.