Amen to that!!! I can't agree with feeling unwelcome in the south, some of my close friends are from Tennessee and I have had keg parties in the smokies shooting at anything that moved with the best of em. But, I do have to say that I just returned from a five month trip to Europe; Germany, Poland, France, Italy, Greece, and the Czech Republic and I did feel very comfortable. And yes, it is very interesting how history is different everywhere you go. I went learning certain things about WWII and then learned different being there. I guess it really is where your from, but in any case what is true is true. The Civil War DID occur, and there were many atrocities throughout. But hey, war is hell. Don't matter if your the deliverer of the fires or the receiver, the fact is the same, it happened and there is nothing we can do about it, except learn from it.