have been awol, lots of major medical going on and I am going crazy

[bootybay]

my husband has double lung cancer, hes not been a nice person at all so my lifes been hell . I get out when I can I can to try to maintain my sanity. so please know I am here sometimes i just read the posts. so kindly bear with me as I am overwhelmed.

 

[releventchair]

Swing a bit as you can, Good idea.
Caretakers need to be taken care of too,a few minutes spent detecting sounds like a winner.
Hang in there.

 

[mamabear]

I would look for someone to sit with your husband for a couple hours maybe twice a wk. Hospice has a wealth of info for support of loved ones, including counseling, which I recommend. I can't imagine what you both must be going through. If you need to talk, you can message me through tnet.
Have missed your posts.

 

[Treasure_Hunter]

Wish you the best and hope things get better soon for you and your husband.... We are always here if you need us.....

 

[Crispin]

Take it one hour at a time. There is an excellent book, "Caregiver burnout: The 36 hour day." It may be helpful. Medicare has services that can come to your house and provide you with relief for a few hours...check with his doctor to get a "Home Health Consult."

Hang in there,
Crispin

Ps. Lots of good music at Crispin's Critters.