Appreciate all of the comments. First of all I was given permission to detect the church cemetery some time ago in hopes that I might find a church members keys which had been lost over the winter.. As a councilman here in town I personally take care of our Veterans Honor Roll which sits in front of the cemetery and keep the area clean and planted with flowers. I did find his keys and returned them to him. I have also found long buried veteran's flag monuments which I have tried to replace near the appropriate graves. The items found today were from along the perimeter cemetery fences which is why I found so many old toy cars. A sidewalk runs along the fences on two sides and many children have played here over the years. There are those who are always quick to judge and condemn in their ignorance. I tend to be of a more positive nature and as Monty Python is known to say LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE!
For future reference, it would be advisable to include some such info with the OP. Too many folks get too riled up over such things.
Personally, I'm with MsBeepBeep! When my time comes and I leave, that's it - I'm not here anymore. The body is simply the vessel which we inhabit while here on Earth. Once the body dies, "we" move on. Doesn't matter whether you look at it from a religious, spiritual, or other standpoint. Religious - when you die, your soul goes to Heaven or Hell. Spiritual - when you die, your Spirit leave on its way to the next life. For "other" - Life is Energy, and Energy never "dies" - it just changes form. When the body can no longer use or contain said Energy, then there is no longer any Energy in the body. Just an empty shell.
The whole point of cemeteries is for the benefit of loved ones....as well as the folks who make money off the situation, like the funeral homes, headstone and casket manufacturers, florists, etc. It's a means that the living use to help find closure and to help deal with the sense of loss - a way to help ease the pain of losing someone close.
For me? I don't care. When my time here is done, hey! I'm outta here!! You can throw this old bag of bones out for the critters to feed on - I don't care - won't be needing it anymore! Got no family to have to worry about their loss. Wife feels the same way. We just wanna be cremated and both put in a big blue or green glass jar. But it
has to be an old jar! After that, we don't care.