Here I go with my typical long post but I have a dog in this fight.
Sorry to hear that happened to you Finderzzs. I speak on the topic of personal safety often in the community and the one thing I preach is that it will happen to you when you least expect it. My exact quote for street survival classes for police officers is "It's not what you expect that will kill you. You spend tremendous amounts of time preparing for the things you expect. It is the unexpected that will do you the most harm." If you look at individual situations for police officers, most of them get killed or injured during situations that they have no idea it's coming. When we go after armed felons, we expect confrontation, so we prepare for it. You never expect to die pulling over a teenager for speeding. You never expect to die answering a call for a barking dog. That is when you are the most vulnerable.
It is a whole new world out there folks. I fear for my children and grandchildren. In my early days as a Police Officer, we were effective in holding this mess down. That was because we had a great judicial system that backed us up and legislators that passed great laws for us to enforce. The judiciary and legislature is now for the most part social workers who have taken it upon themselves to fix all the bad guys and put them back into society as "normal productive citizens". After all, "these guys are just misunderstood and society never gave them the chances they needed to develop into good human beings". RIGHT!!!!!! I can tell you that after 36 years of dealing with them, you can't fix mean bad *ss street thugs. They have to fix themselves which is rare at best. There are people with legitimate issues that need help but for the common street criminal, they simply enjoy it and it is a lifestyle that they choose. I have friends that are social workers and they do help the truly helpless but when it comes to criminals, I don't believe that they are very effective. I finally shut my social worker friends up by telling them that I will say no more if they will just take these poor misguided individuals into their own homes and let them live with them for just one week. Surely that will show them that society cares and then they will turn around. Leave them in your home with your wife and children while you are gone. Leave them in your home with your jewelry while you are gone. Well, you can guess that my social worker friends don't talk to me anymore about rehabilitating bad *ss criminals.
We can move our place of residence to avoid it but it is like a cancer taking over the country very slowly. No matter where you go, it will eventually get there. The best way to deal with it is to accept that it is there, prepare yourself for it. Always expect it. Then you will have a better chance of overcoming it.
Hope you get well soon man!
Jim
DaChief