I just need to release a little steam here guys.... Sorry... So, after 17 years of marriage, and my husband telling me that I needed a hobby, I've finally found a hobby (as of 5/25/14). It's my very first hobby that I've ever had in my life... GOLD PROSPECTING, and I really enjoy it! So, now every time My husband wants to pick a fight he throws out at me... "Why don't you just go dig for gold, that's all you ever want to do anyway." AAAAARRRRRGGGHHHH! I mean I don't say to him, "Why don't you go ride your mountain bike, that's all you ever want to do anyway! Why don't you go to the gym, that's all you ever want to do anyway!" It's soooooo stooooopid! It's like now he can't stand it that I have an interest other than sitting at home waiting for him to come home like a little puppy to pat my head. And he flat out refuses to go with me to the river as if to punish me! (Although I must admit that it sure is nice to get away alone for some serenity!) But really... WTH!!!