BIG61AL said:
The wife...my to do list is never shorter than twenty items plus she can't seem to do anything without my help in some way. I need you to find this. Where is that? Go get me the whatever. Reach up there for me. but all my tasks have to be done alone no matter how big or if it really needs two people. Had you ever have to move a sofa up flight of stairs by yourself? I have. Also she can have anything she wants wherever she wants it to be. But my stuff has to put away and out of site [read that as you can't use it] and will nag me until everything of mine is in a closet or drawer. nag nag nag every day. Its a wonder I ever get out of the house at all.
And have you found she only needs your help
after you've walked away? I can be standing beside my wife, helping her with something, and then we finish. So, I'll cross the living room, up a couple of stairs, down a hallway, into the den, and I hear, "Can you help me with something?"