Ha I always enjoy your responses. Where exactly do you live in Maine? If ya don't mind my asking.
At the risk of sounding like a selfish miserable ******* I'll explain why I hunt solo. There's actually a few reasons. I have a good friend here in Maine who's a very successful treasure hunter. When I first started this hobby I watched him have a very nasty exchange with somebody that he had hunted with. He rarely hunts with anybody but accepted an invitation to hunt with this guy. They got together and enjoyed the day hunting but neither found much of anything. The site was a spot that anybody can hunt. It wasn't some amazing secret permission or anything like that. Fast forward a few weeks or a little longer. On a public forum that guy absolutely blasted my buddy for not inviting him to one of his sites. It got really ugly and it stuck with me. I basically decided at that point that I would research my ass off and find my own sites and never put myself in a position where somebody could accuse me of using them for their sites or not reciprocating enough or not taking them to my best sites. I started this hobby to be therapeutic and peaceful. It's a way to escape all of the damn drama that seems to come with this world these days. So I go as far off the beaten path as I can. That brings me to another reason I don't invite people. Most of my sites take a lot of effort to get to. I kayak, hike and climb steep cliffs to get to some of these spots. One day I hiked 18 miles round trip and didn't find a damn thing lol. Im guessing 98% of intelligent people wouldn't want to go to most of my spots. It's a hell of a lot of effort and it's not always worth it. To me it's just part of the process. Eliminating a site is just a step towards getting to the next great site. A couple years ago I decided to invite a couple of guys from Tnet that I've talked to a lot to come to Maine and hunt. They both live a long way away and there's no danger of them going to my sites with out me or anything like that. These two wouldn't anyway but I'm sure you get my point. I don't go hunt anybody else's sites and I likely never will. I find great joy in the research and finding these amazing colonial sites that nobody else has discovered.
I realize this was a bit long winded but the point is I go to great lengths to avoid any drama sneaking into the hobby that I love and am so passionate about. I've seen way too many horror stories, hurt feelings and friendships destroyed. I work 70-80 hours a week normally and on the rare days I can hunt I just want to put myself deep in the woods by myself and enjoy the peace of nature. Maybe I am a selfish ******* lol