DeepseekerADS
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- Mar 3, 2013
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There was a lady I liked "on the surface", felt a bit of good chemistry, and found her physically attractive during our only in person meeting.
So, we were talking on the phone, at least she was, about absolutely nothing - just continuing noise. A couple times I tried to interject and she talked right over me. I tried to be patient, and then the light went off in me that stated clearly - I wouldn't want that in my life, I would end up hating her. I tried to interject again and she again talked right over me.
I hung up the phone on her and have never written or spoken to her again. She e-mailed me one more time, said she didn't understand why I dropped her.
And, she never will.
smart folks honestly like bumping into other smart folks -- its so rare and refreshing to actually chat with a intelligent person on interesting subject matter ... rather than having to plod along with dull boring folks and their chatter all about the latest TV show their watching ---yawn.....
And here I am hiding up the holler loving the company of my 3 cats. They come around for the essentials and do not bombard me with continuous noise. Noise is all you receive from others with a limited universe. And my own reclusive nature, through extreme vetting is why I remain alone after the 20 years following my divorce.
Invite the Devil in, he'll surely come to stay.
There was a lady I liked "on the surface", felt a bit of good chemistry, and found her physically attractive during our only in person meeting.
So, we were talking on the phone, at least she was, about absolutely nothing - just continuing noise. A couple times I tried to interject and she talked right over me. I tried to be patient, and then the light went off in me that stated clearly - I wouldn't want that in my life, I would end up hating her. I tried to interject again and she again talked right over me.
I hung up the phone on her and have never written or spoken to her again. She e-mailed me one more time, said she didn't understand why I dropped her.
And, she never will.
I used to fall under the category of never slowing down. Had some bad personal experiences and, while they didn't stop me from interacting with people, I wouldn't let ANYONE get close to me!!
Don't know if I could be considered "smart", or if "smart ass" would better reflect me, but we live as far away from "humans" as we can physically handle, so you tell me!
...I guess that's why I like this internet forum-thing so much. It's like, "Can you see, feel or hurt me now?? GOOD!!"
DANG you got good ears!We had the same type of conversation here a couple weeks ago. We had all kinds of friends, people showed up and called all hours of the day and night. Since we moved 3 states away? We hear from 3 people!! Where did they all go? Hmmm, can't help or loan money instantly from 3 states away.
So, if I visit the crazy cat guy ; I have to stay on the porch huh?
Guess I ought to worry about getting to the porch first though ; without getting hit with a book from that trebuchet.....
Relationships are either for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.