Gee, I'm sorry I said anything at all. Cynthia (Jesse's mom) and I are friends. I brought Jesse's maps to one of the rendezvous, in hopes that the Superstition Rescue guys could get something from them. In the course of this whole thing, Cynthia only wanted to bring Jesse home. When he was found, she flew to Arizona to see his body. 5 days later, they released it, and she brought him home, and was examined at home, and she laid him to rest. She didn't want a memorial - ever. It is Cynthia who said that his monument was there on the mountain (I had wanted to do a monument back then). For the record - no bullet holes anywhere. Now, Cynthia spends her energy (as does his Uncle Greg) trying to remember the good times, and getting on with life. She has medical issues, and, all things considered, as she said, nothing can change what has happened, so, having him come home is the best thing she could have hoped for, and I agree with her. I, myself, cannot imagine losing my child, ever, never mind spending so much time not even knowing where he was or what had happened to him. And I cannot imagine myself bringing all that front and center years later, just to satisfy someone's curiosity. Please, let sleeping dogs lie (or dead men's mothers be).
Mrs.O