We are all different and I hate to envelope anybody in a stereotype......but IMO it seems that many MD'ers want to be secluded to a point of piss off and don't bother me.
I get that a few people here have had their detectors stolen and had the local crackheads pull knives on them wanting the loot. I even understand it is a hobby of solitude and some people just like to be left alone.
What I don't understand is why anybody would not invite normal healthy conversation about something they are passionate about? Seems like people are throwing away chances at connections and friendships over their fear of being "bothered" by some onlooker who is clearly interested in the same things you are. Is it really a bother to talk about a hobby you enjoy for 5 minutes?
I will post about it all on TN with my internet family....but don't you dare approach me while I am doing it in real life!!! Seems bat-poop nutty to me.
Take the headphones off and share your knowledge. It is worthless kept to yourself. Don't feed them "go away" answers to their newb questions...answer them like it is the first time you have been asked and show interest in their interest.
You might just make a new pal. Then you can tell them how X machine is the best and how stupid they are for thinking of buying another model or brand.
After that they should be well molded and ready to come register at TN with the rest of us.