I am guilty as charged.
I really enjoy reading about peoples' experiences and learning from the obviously experienced posters - but as a newbie to THing I
at least know enough to realize that I dont have much of anything constructive to add to most of these threads.
I dont 'know' anyone in this forum, altho I have a few favorite people based on what I see from their consistently uplifting posts.
Of course, I also have a few decidedly
non-favorite people for the same reason!
Simply put, I dont post because A) does anybody really
care about my opinion? I'm wet behind the ears and I know it! I understand the old saying "it's best to remain silent & be thought a fool than to open one's mouth & remove all doubt..." and B) posting on a thread where people know each other, have associated for a long while, and have a conversation going may be seen as abrasive & intrusive. If three or four friends were sitting at a table in a restaurant talking, I wouldnt just insert myself into their midst & start adding my two cents. I'm not that arrogant.
If, over time, I make friends here I'll be happy to get to know folks. But I'm not going to try to force myself onto others in the virtual world any more than I would in the real one.
People become friends over time and I'm OK waiting for that to develop naturally.
In the meantime, I'll enjoy reading & learning from all you nice people while I learn about this board. It's a nice site, by the way
Digz
