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Tonight my half deaf self is performing at the 77th surprise birthday party of a Vietnam veteran, and his 57th wedding anniversary is just a few days away. There will be 275 to 300 guests.

Since there is a Vietnam war era set I’ve been trying to get time post our list and get some feedback and suggestions from you guys that were around during those days but I’ve been too busy and now the day has come. But feel free to take a look and we can always scratch a song or maybe my band guys will already know another you can suggest. I can learn lyrics on short notice and see if we can get it approved.

This started like my last gig where I would sing with soundtracks, then one thing led to another and before I knew it my friend will be playing guitar, one of my teachers from last year on drums, and a guy he knows playing bass. My friend has been playing guitar and piano since he was 2 and is somehow related to one of the ZZ Top guys which is cool. He knows all their songs but we aren’t performing any of those tonight.

We had to come up with a couple of hours of material which was no small task. First they want some Vietnam war era songs, then the birthday boy loves Elvis so they want a few of his tunes. Then they want light rock songs that people can dance to. So we had to come up with a set that our ragtag band already knows or could learn quickly, me included. And to add to the difficulty none of the songs could contain swear words or have references to drugs, sex, violence, or contain racial slurs, which pretty much eliminated all my usual music haha. I know the story behind White Rabbit and tried to get it on the list but failed. My instructor knows the story too.

After hours of brainstorming we had our song list, got it approved, then spent more hours learning our parts, then even more hours of rehearsal. Luckily they are all talented musicians and I have this odd talent of hearing a song once then can recite the lyrics, so it came together quickly and I must say - we are pretty good!

This is where it gets awesome! The family wants to play a prank the birthday guy, so our first song will be Eruption (Van Halen) and my friend is going to completely mangle it as I stomp around doing the worst dancing imaginable as I pound a cowbell lmao. We’ll keep our poker faces on like we think we’re really putting on a great show while the family starts complaining to my instructor this isn’t what they paid for, she promised them we are good, etc.

They’ll keep complaining and some of the family will boo us until the guitar fades then my guitar player will immediately kick into the first song of the Vietnam war era set, one we chose for the awesome and easily recognizable guitar riff at the beginning. This is when they’ll witness his talent:

Fortunate Son (CCR)

After that one these are the other songs, in order:

Me and Bobby McGee (Janis Joplin)
Knocking on Heaven’s door (Bob Dylan)
For what it’s worth (Buffalo Springfield)
House of the rising son (The Animals)
Mercedes Benz (Janis Joplin)
Note: Of course I’ll include “I’d like to do a song of great social and political import. It goes like this.”
Spirit in the sky (Norman Greenbaum)
Jumping Jack flash (Rolling Stones)

Then we go straight into Elvis, and start this set with another awesome, recognizable riff:

Suspicious minds (Elvis)
Kentucky rain (Elvis)
Way Down (Elvis)
Note: My drummer will do the low notes.
Burning Love (Elvis)

We’ll close the Elvis set with the birthday guy’s favorite Elvis song, and this is the one where my instructor says give them my “Ann Wilson” voice for the first time, strong and loud:

You gave me a mountain (Elvis)

Then we’ll have everyone join me in singing Happy birthday! After that we’ll take a break as they have the birthday celebration, then it’s time for the guests to mingle, dance, whatever they want to do as we continue. It’s about an hour of material:

Don’t stop believing (Journey)
Return to innocence (Enigma)
Note: Enigma uses chants from Tibetan monks but it is close enough to what I am raised with that I can rock it.
Nothing at all (Heart)
Live forever (Almost Monday)
Hold my hand (Hootie and the Blowfish)
I’m still standing (Elton John)
Better be good to me (Tina Turner)
Note: Tina Turner has cowbell in hers so guess what? More cowbell! Got to take care of those fevers.
What’s up? (4 non blondes)
This is me (Keala Settle)
Somebody to Love (Queen)
Note: We’re doing an extended version of Somebody to Love, they showed me a vid of George Michaels doing a tribute to Freddie Mercury live, so that’s our version with audience participation.
The Gambler (Kenny Rogers)
I’ll get back up again (Poppy! Haha!)
Can’t stop loving you (Van Halen)

Then as it’s time to wrap things up we are going to invite the birthday guy and his wife to the stage to dance for their anniversary while I sing a duet with the drummer:

Come What May (Nicole Kidman & Ewan McGregor)

Then we will close with:

Free bird (Lynyrd Skynyrd)

When Free Bird gets to 4.5 minutes left (the rocking part), I’m going to invite all the kids up and have them join me doing an Apache dance I’ve turbocharged for that awesome ending. That should burn off some of their sugar from the cake and ice cream haha. And my instructor gave me a tambourine to play during the ending and it sounds awesome together.

That’s it! Sorry this is so long, I’m a nervous wreck and rambling, but writing this all out has helped get myself in the zone and calmed my nerves a little (for those that don’t know I used to struggle with anxiety and I’m about to pop at the moment).
 
GirlWithWolf,
Did you consider this one for your playlist?
You'll do well tonight !!
Don in SoCal
63-69 (USAF)
Thank you! I will see if they know this one, that will be easy for me to learn the lyrics and I can even set up my phone as a teleprompter. We asked about Gimme Shelter but that one got shot down.
 
That sounds like a great time & those are all excellent songs. Fortunate Son will be a hit for the 1st one out of the chute. That's a lot of songs to cover in one party.
 
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That sounds like a great time & those are all excellent songs. Fortunate Son will be a hit for the 1st one out of the chute. That's a lot if songs to cover in one party.
Thank you and yes it is. I don’t think we’ll get to all of them. We’ll definitely do all the 60’s ones and all the Elvis songs. Then we’ll do the last two for sure, blocking off 15 minutes for those, which would leave 30-45 minutes for the other dance songs. I think we have 13 in that group but will probably only do 7 or 8.
 
Tonight my half deaf self is performing at the 77th surprise birthday party of a Vietnam veteran, and his 57th wedding anniversary is just a few days away. There will be 275 to 300 guests.

Since there is a Vietnam war era set I’ve been trying to get time post our list and get some feedback and suggestions from you guys that were around during those days but I’ve been too busy and now the day has come. But feel free to take a look and we can always scratch a song or maybe my band guys will already know another you can suggest. I can learn lyrics on short notice and see if we can get it approved.

This started like my last gig where I would sing with soundtracks, then one thing led to another and before I knew it my friend will be playing guitar, one of my teachers from last year on drums, and a guy he knows playing bass. My friend has been playing guitar and piano since he was 2 and is somehow related to one of the ZZ Top guys which is cool. He knows all their songs but we aren’t performing any of those tonight.

We had to come up with a couple of hours of material which was no small task. First they want some Vietnam war era songs, then the birthday boy loves Elvis so they want a few of his tunes. Then they want light rock songs that people can dance to. So we had to come up with a set that our ragtag band already knows or could learn quickly, me included. And to add to the difficulty none of the songs could contain swear words or have references to drugs, sex, violence, or contain racial slurs, which pretty much eliminated all my usual music haha. I know the story behind White Rabbit and tried to get it on the list but failed. My instructor knows the story too.

After hours of brainstorming we had our song list, got it approved, then spent more hours learning our parts, then even more hours of rehearsal. Luckily they are all talented musicians and I have this odd talent of hearing a song once then can recite the lyrics, so it came together quickly and I must say - we are pretty good!

This is where it gets awesome! The family wants to play a prank the birthday guy, so our first song will be Eruption (Van Halen) and my friend is going to completely mangle it as I stomp around doing the worst dancing imaginable as I pound a cowbell lmao. We’ll keep our poker faces on like we think we’re really putting on a great show while the family starts complaining to my instructor this isn’t what they paid for, she promised them we are good, etc.

They’ll keep complaining and some of the family will boo us until the guitar fades then my guitar player will immediately kick into the first song of the Vietnam war era set, one we chose for the awesome and easily recognizable guitar riff at the beginning. This is when they’ll witness his talent:

Fortunate Son (CCR)

After that one these are the other songs, in order:

Me and Bobby McGee (Janis Joplin)
Knocking on Heaven’s door (Bob Dylan)
For what it’s worth (Buffalo Springfield)
House of the rising son (The Animals)
Mercedes Benz (Janis Joplin)
Note: Of course I’ll include “I’d like to do a song of great social and political import. It goes like this.”
Spirit in the sky (Norman Greenbaum)
Jumping Jack flash (Rolling Stones)

Then we go straight into Elvis, and start this set with another awesome, recognizable riff:

Suspicious minds (Elvis)
Kentucky rain (Elvis)
Way Down (Elvis)
Note: My drummer will do the low notes.
Burning Love (Elvis)

We’ll close the Elvis set with the birthday guy’s favorite Elvis song, and this is the one where my instructor says give them my “Ann Wilson” voice for the first time, strong and loud:

You gave me a mountain (Elvis)

Then we’ll have everyone join me in singing Happy birthday! After that we’ll take a break as they have the birthday celebration, then it’s time for the guests to mingle, dance, whatever they want to do as we continue. It’s about an hour of material:

Don’t stop believing (Journey)
Return to innocence (Enigma)
Note: Enigma uses chants from Tibetan monks but it is close enough to what I am raised with that I can rock it.
Nothing at all (Heart)
Live forever (Almost Monday)
Hold my hand (Hootie and the Blowfish)
I’m still standing (Elton John)
Better be good to me (Tina Turner)
Note: Tina Turner has cowbell in hers so guess what? More cowbell! Got to take care of those fevers.
What’s up? (4 non blondes)
This is me (Keala Settle)
Somebody to Love (Queen)
Note: We’re doing an extended version of Somebody to Love, they showed me a vid of George Michaels doing a tribute to Freddie Mercury live, so that’s our version with audience participation.
The Gambler (Kenny Rogers)
I’ll get back up again (Poppy! Haha!)
Can’t stop loving you (Van Halen)

Then as it’s time to wrap things up we are going to invite the birthday guy and his wife to the stage to dance for their anniversary while I sing a duet with the drummer:

Come What May (Nicole Kidman & Ewan McGregor)

Then we will close with:

Free bird (Lynyrd Skynyrd)

When Free Bird gets to 4.5 minutes left (the rocking part), I’m going to invite all the kids up and have them join me doing an Apache dance I’ve turbocharged for that awesome ending. That should burn off some of their sugar from the cake and ice cream haha. And my instructor gave me a tambourine to play during the ending and it sounds awesome together.

That’s it! Sorry this is so long, I’m a nervous wreck and rambling, but writing this all out has helped get myself in the zone and calmed my nerves a little (for those that don’t know I used to struggle with anxiety and I’m about to pop at the moment).
Awesome but Enigma didn't use chants by monks it was a folk song they ripped of from the native singers about a young man who was a drunk and he was telling his mother he was sorry. Enigma copped serious flak over doing that to them without their permission.
Good luck though.👍
 
That's cool ! Just a thought, a lot of those are Vietnam protest songs, might trigger memories... of course I don't know the person. Please tell him I said thank you for your service !!!
 
Tonight my half deaf self is performing at the 77th surprise birthday party of a Vietnam veteran, and his 57th wedding anniversary is just a few days away. There will be 275 to 300 guests.

Since there is a Vietnam war era set I’ve been trying to get time post our list and get some feedback and suggestions from you guys that were around during those days but I’ve been too busy and now the day has come. But feel free to take a look and we can always scratch a song or maybe my band guys will already know another you can suggest. I can learn lyrics on short notice and see if we can get it approved.

This started like my last gig where I would sing with soundtracks, then one thing led to another and before I knew it my friend will be playing guitar, one of my teachers from last year on drums, and a guy he knows playing bass. My friend has been playing guitar and piano since he was 2 and is somehow related to one of the ZZ Top guys which is cool. He knows all their songs but we aren’t performing any of those tonight.

We had to come up with a couple of hours of material which was no small task. First they want some Vietnam war era songs, then the birthday boy loves Elvis so they want a few of his tunes. Then they want light rock songs that people can dance to. So we had to come up with a set that our ragtag band already knows or could learn quickly, me included. And to add to the difficulty none of the songs could contain swear words or have references to drugs, sex, violence, or contain racial slurs, which pretty much eliminated all my usual music haha. I know the story behind White Rabbit and tried to get it on the list but failed. My instructor knows the story too.

After hours of brainstorming we had our song list, got it approved, then spent more hours learning our parts, then even more hours of rehearsal. Luckily they are all talented musicians and I have this odd talent of hearing a song once then can recite the lyrics, so it came together quickly and I must say - we are pretty good!

This is where it gets awesome! The family wants to play a prank the birthday guy, so our first song will be Eruption (Van Halen) and my friend is going to completely mangle it as I stomp around doing the worst dancing imaginable as I pound a cowbell lmao. We’ll keep our poker faces on like we think we’re really putting on a great show while the family starts complaining to my instructor this isn’t what they paid for, she promised them we are good, etc.

They’ll keep complaining and some of the family will boo us until the guitar fades then my guitar player will immediately kick into the first song of the Vietnam war era set, one we chose for the awesome and easily recognizable guitar riff at the beginning. This is when they’ll witness his talent:

Fortunate Son (CCR)

After that one these are the other songs, in order:

Me and Bobby McGee (Janis Joplin)
Knocking on Heaven’s door (Bob Dylan)
For what it’s worth (Buffalo Springfield)
House of the rising son (The Animals)
Mercedes Benz (Janis Joplin)
Note: Of course I’ll include “I’d like to do a song of great social and political import. It goes like this.”
Spirit in the sky (Norman Greenbaum)
Jumping Jack flash (Rolling Stones)

Then we go straight into Elvis, and start this set with another awesome, recognizable riff:

Suspicious minds (Elvis)
Kentucky rain (Elvis)
Way Down (Elvis)
Note: My drummer will do the low notes.
Burning Love (Elvis)

We’ll close the Elvis set with the birthday guy’s favorite Elvis song, and this is the one where my instructor says give them my “Ann Wilson” voice for the first time, strong and loud:

You gave me a mountain (Elvis)

Then we’ll have everyone join me in singing Happy birthday! After that we’ll take a break as they have the birthday celebration, then it’s time for the guests to mingle, dance, whatever they want to do as we continue. It’s about an hour of material:

Don’t stop believing (Journey)
Return to innocence (Enigma)
Note: Enigma uses chants from Tibetan monks but it is close enough to what I am raised with that I can rock it.
Nothing at all (Heart)
Live forever (Almost Monday)
Hold my hand (Hootie and the Blowfish)
I’m still standing (Elton John)
Better be good to me (Tina Turner)
Note: Tina Turner has cowbell in hers so guess what? More cowbell! Got to take care of those fevers.
What’s up? (4 non blondes)
This is me (Keala Settle)
Somebody to Love (Queen)
Note: We’re doing an extended version of Somebody to Love, they showed me a vid of George Michaels doing a tribute to Freddie Mercury live, so that’s our version with audience participation.
The Gambler (Kenny Rogers)
I’ll get back up again (Poppy! Haha!)
Can’t stop loving you (Van Halen)

Then as it’s time to wrap things up we are going to invite the birthday guy and his wife to the stage to dance for their anniversary while I sing a duet with the drummer:

Come What May (Nicole Kidman & Ewan McGregor)

Then we will close with:

Free bird (Lynyrd Skynyrd)

When Free Bird gets to 4.5 minutes left (the rocking part), I’m going to invite all the kids up and have them join me doing an Apache dance I’ve turbocharged for that awesome ending. That should burn off some of their sugar from the cake and ice cream haha. And my instructor gave me a tambourine to play during the ending and it sounds awesome together.

That’s it! Sorry this is so long, I’m a nervous wreck and rambling, but writing this all out has helped get myself in the zone and calmed my nerves a little (for those that don’t know I used to struggle with anxiety and I’m about to pop at the moment).

You all have this , together.
In dark jungle are shadows you are addressing that would thrill to hear and see you and the Veterans there. They can't leave though.
Sing for them if you have to leave the vibe where you are ; for a minute. SING!
But there's no needing to even do that. Because you have this! Together.

Congrats on the Gig..

 
Sometimes I see posts here that I personally might not necessary think is treasure. This IS TEASURE!! I'm sure you killed it unless of course half the room left during the initial stint, lol. Great post!
I am also a singing drummer and my bass player buddy likes to end a late night with "Life Is Cheap" by Flipper. It'll get the folks to move on their way, for sure!
Do give us a update on how well you all nailed it and thanks again for sharing.

*I should add.....I'm a lot nicer than the bass player and try and stop him, almost... every time.
 
Awesome but Enigma didn't use chants by monks it was a folk song they ripped of from the native singers about a young man who was a drunk and he was telling his mother he was sorry. Enigma copped serious flak over doing that to them without their permission.
Good luck though.👍
Was that for all their songs when they chant or just Return to Innocence? When I looked up whether they did their own or mimicked it was about Back to the rivers of belief, so I assumed it was the same for the one I did. Either one, it went off without a hitch for us.
 
Thanks to everyone for the nice words, I really do appreciate it. The night was definitely a success. The wildest part is I was just doing it as a favor to my voice instructor and didn’t realize I was getting paid until she told me to come by to pick up the deposit. When we got the rest last night I tried to split it with the band but none of them would take it so I’m going to keep my share and give their cut to St Jude.

The beginning was crazy, my friend was completely wrecking Eruption but acting like he was really knocking it out of the park, and I was banging on that cowbell putting Will Ferrell to shame. The birthday guy’s family was griping at my instructor and one yelling for us to stop, and he was saying it was okay just enjoy the party hahaha. It was the pandemonium they wanted. Then Mac faded out of Eruption and went straight into the guitar of Fortunate Son. The birthday guy was turned trying to get his family to chill and he spun around and jumped up and screamed HELL YEAH. It was a rush!

I had nerves of steel until we got to Mercedes Benz. Everyone laughed when I said the introduction but by the second verse a lot were singing along with me, so the nervousness went away.

We did the rest of the Vietnam war set then went into Elvis. He loved that too but the last song, You Gave Me a Mountain, his entire family was in tears. I found out after the party he has cancer and it isn’t looking too good. We gave them a minute after that one then sang Happy Birthday.

The rest of the songs went great, so much so they wanted more so we did almost all I listed plus one we practiced we didn’t include- Stairway to Heaven. After we finished and the party ended a lot of the guests came up to compliment us and the ones with kids loved how I got them on the dance floor and came down to dance with them during Free Bird. And a lot were giving us tips!

They let my brother and his girlfriend attend, they just hung out in the back for the music. I don’t know exactly what my brother told my father about the show, but when I got back to my cell I had the nicest compliment from him, which was the biggest win of my night. (It’s a big deal, he isn’t exactly on board with me performing.)

Thanks again everyone!
 
Thank you! I will see if they know this one, that will be easy for me to learn the lyrics and I can even set up my phone as a teleprompter. We asked about Gimme Shelter but that one got shot down.
Don's suggestion is an excellent Vietnam war era song.
Let us know how it goes.
 
Thanks to everyone for the nice words, I really do appreciate it. The night was definitely a success. The wildest part is I was just doing it as a favor to my voice instructor and didn’t realize I was getting paid until she told me to come by to pick up the deposit. When we got the rest last night I tried to split it with the band but none of them would take it so I’m going to keep my share and give their cut to St Jude.

The beginning was crazy, my friend was completely wrecking Eruption but acting like he was really knocking it out of the park, and I was banging on that cowbell putting Will Ferrell to shame. The birthday guy’s family was griping at my instructor and one yelling for us to stop, and he was saying it was okay just enjoy the party hahaha. It was the pandemonium they wanted. Then Mac faded out of Eruption and went straight into the guitar of Fortunate Son. The birthday guy was turned trying to get his family to chill and he spun around and jumped up and screamed HELL YEAH. It was a rush!

I had nerves of steel until we got to Mercedes Benz. Everyone laughed when I said the introduction but by the second verse a lot were singing along with me, so the nervousness went away.

We did the rest of the Vietnam war set then went into Elvis. He loved that too but the last song, You Gave Me a Mountain, his entire family was in tears. I found out after the party he has cancer and it isn’t looking too good. We gave them a minute after that one then sang Happy Birthday.

The rest of the songs went great, so much so they wanted more so we did almost all I listed plus one we practiced we didn’t include- Stairway to Heaven. After we finished and the party ended a lot of the guests came up to compliment us and the ones with kids loved how I got them on the dance floor and came down to dance with them during Free Bird. And a lot were giving us tips!

They let my brother and his girlfriend attend, they just hung out in the back for the music. I don’t know exactly what my brother told my father about the show, but when I got back to my cell I had the nicest compliment from him, which was the biggest win of my night. (It’s a big deal, he isn’t exactly on board with me performing.)

Thanks again everyone!

:goldtrophy: Well done. 👍
 

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