~Trish~ said:
failing to respond to people who have asked questions concerning your finds
I hate that worse than anything. That, to me, is almost as bad as me asking my husband something only to be ignored.
Just wondering if the same people do that in public when someone is talking to them? Ignore them, or just look at em like their stupid.
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I feel so much better now)
Thank you MB
I agree 100%
I think many of us have been guilty of this at one time or another both here on Treasurenet and in public.
The rest of this post isn't directed toward you but it just came to mind while thinking along these lines.
I've been in and out of this forum since the beginning. In the old days we could instantly delete our entire membership on TNet by just clicking a button or two (I did this several times myself).
My account here today was started in 2005 (as I recall).
In just this short time I've made friends, lost some, and gained some back. Most of the time I had no idea why. Probably some comment I made or maybe I didn't reply to them? who knows?
I think too on all forums there is lots of jealousy. Someone else is getting more attention therefore I hate him (or her). I guess we could say we're all children.
I've written this many times before, but, I think some people who have a very disfunctional social life join forums and chat groups hoping to heal the hurt they experience in this nasty old world. If that healing never comes they become very angry. This is where those people come from who seriously start attacking other member's finds and general posts. They're crying out for help but in this world we reap what we sow. It's natural to love those who deliver--not those who pout.
I'm getting old and have wished many times I could go back and redo a lot of things (I'm referring to things long before interent). If I had it to do over I would of been much more cool. I waisted way too much time being bitter about crap that really didn't matter.
During his long life my uncle always used to say: "Laugh, and the whole world laughs with you. Cry, and you cry alone." That seemed dumb to me as a kid but it's making a whole lot more sense to me today.