Contributors to the negative side of MDing...
>The ones that MD on school property during school hours or when after school activities are going on.
>MDing in public sports parks while events are taking place
>Carrying a large shovel anyplace in public/populated areas
>Detecting curb strips and not using common sense, if well kept the homeowner has pride in it...Don't argue with objecting homeowners to the point they call the police or their councilman.
>Digging holes on public beaches and not filling them...sure kids do it, but why make yourself a target for expulsion. We are few, they are many
>Beach detecting when the beaches are packed. Beach goers/tourist are the majority and what the chamber of commerce want ... not you!
.....Most of these are corrected by just using common sense, unfortunately not all MDers posses this. SS
I love how our city ordinance specifically states:
For me the picture sums up how we should ALL be behaving in a park.. if you're a soccer player, be an ambassador. If you're a jungle Gym user, be an ambassador... If you're a dog ball thrower, be an ambassador.
Thinking about that, while I'm out, changes the purpose of WHY I'm there... It's not just for what's in the ground.
Now... that being said, I FULLY recognize that being an ambassador is NOT for everyone. And many folks prefer the off hours, to intentionally avoid the people. My above comments are not to be reflected that I disagree that solution isn't perfect for THEM... It's only to suggest that everyone everywhere shouldn't be required to hide themselves.
When we HUMANIZE the hobby, we help break down barriers. I refuse to stay at home out of fear. I have too many great experiences in the prime time of the day (With PEOPLE, not always with the trash!

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I LOVE showing up to the park with my metal detector, and often, my son in tow, when there are lots of people around. Sure, we initially get funny looks, but it's not too long before we're either engaged with people talking, or folks are back to doing their own thing. We have great experiences, hilarious conversations with folks, and get to show them we're keeping the parks CLEAN. In fact, I've been invited to several neighborhood parks to detect, that I otherwise wouldn't have been able to hunt, because of the trash cleanup aspect. People LIKE that we're a part of the community. Sure there's the idiot or two out there who are going to have negative attitudes, but those are the same idiots that complain about how the kids are making too much noise on the playground equipment, or complain that the soccer team practice is "hogging the lawn" that their dog can't now run in. Parks are made FOR the community, and the myriad of hobbies we enjoy.
My son and I have made a lot of positive impressions this way, and sure, it takes a bit of time away from the actual detecting, but the public is NOT going to be persuaded away from the belief that we're "abnormal" as long as every MDer out there hides from them, and disappears at the first sign of people. I've often wondered what kind of impression THAT leaves? Hmm??
I believe there's a balance to be struck. We should NOT fear going to into parks during use hours, simply because we want to hide our activity from the weirdos who choose to be judgmental. As you noted, a lot of this is just COMMON SENSE. Just as I'm not going to walk around someone's picnic area if I'm having a picnic near them, I'm not going to do it with my detector! If people are doing STUPID things with their detector THAT is far more damaging than the person who furthers the hobby by being polite, considerate, and friendly. Give people space, be friendly, and don't ACT creepy (I've actually SEEN a MDer "detect" around some girls sunbathing. Yeah... Boot HIM. It's not the detector that the problem, it's the creepy guy at the end of the handle.)
This is NOT to suggest that people who are going in the wee hours would, in the presences of people, make a menace of themselves, encroach on people's privacy, or disrupt events... (the STUPID things...) But if that IS the case, then absolutely I agree with you. Those people should definitely hunt in the off hours!
EDIT: Just finished reading Tom's last point. I think he makes some really valid points. It's absolutely true that if no one is around when I detect, there's no one to complain, and if we already have permission, we could "potentially" jeopardize that. It's certainly possible. In my city, things can't really get much better. I suppose there's a chance I could royally screw up an encounter and they could change the ordinance on the actions of me being stupid. I get that. I also don't think I'm going to stop. LOL I love the hobby, and hope my encounters are positive for those around me. I actually bought a bunch of cheap silver rings on eBay the other day (waiting for them to come in), to give to nice folks who come and chat up appropriately. I figure it'll be a fun way to get people to talk positively about the hobby. I certainly wasn't "bank broken" by the $5 I spent for the 10 rings. I also grabbed a roll of blank buffalo nickels to put on cards in little baggie (with the history of the nickel) as thank you cards for people who allow me to detect on their property (like the guy with the Snow Cone Shacks!)
I think there's things we all can do to help the hobby... and yeah, sometimes STAYING OFF THE CROWDED AREA is definitely one of them.
Great conversation, all... I've enjoyed this, and it's definitely helped me think about things. Especially you, Tom. Good stuff.