Re: 2010 DUTCH HUNTER'S RENDEZVOUS
Dear Steve and Kathi,
"Most people break off into their own groups,if you're not a "member" of the LDM community,you tend to be somewhat ignored,not entirely,but it happens.We will probably not be attending this year."
It's truly disheartening to read your post. I hope you change your mind and make the effort to attend.
With the help of a few friends, I held the first Dutch Hunter's Rendezvous at Twin Buttes, near Florence. We were there with a purpose, and that was to find the scrapings on a hillside in the area. Around 35 people said they would attend, only 13 of us showed up. Of course I had stew/garlic toast and sausage and gravy with mom's biscuits ready for around 40 people. Roger brought salad for everyone.
We all sat under the shade at my trailer and talked about people and the history of the LDM. As it was a small group, the conversation was lively and flowed where it wanted. We discussed the LDM, history, Native Americans (mostly Apache) and religion. I doubt anyone felt left out. Carolyn was the only lady there, except for Gloria who showed up with Brad on Saturday. They only stayed for the day.
Each year I set up my trailer and provide as much shade as I can. We bring extra chairs and everyone else usually has their own. I try to bring enough stew/garlic toast for everyone for Friday night. Roger always brings salad. We do the same for biscuits and gravy for Saturday morning. To be honest, that got a little out of hand last year, as we probably had 75 people show up. We served ' till we ran out of food. I always bring extra.
What we have lost since that first Rendezvous, is the ability to have quiet, intimate conversations with our friends. Carolyn tries to do everything she can to keep me free to mix with the folks, but when it gets that big and I am trying to act as camp host, it gets hectic. We set up our camp hoping to accommodate everyone under the shade.
Speaking for Carolyn and myself, we will miss you guys if you don't show up. I apologize for not spending more time with all of my friends who showed up last year. I can assure you it's not because I didn't want to. I wish you guys had been at the first Rendezvous.
What you do get at the Rendezvous, is the chance to talk to many people one on one. Small conversations break out all over the place. Anyone who attends is welcome in any of those small talks, as long as the participants don't ask for privacy. No one should feel slighted if that happens.
Take care,
Joe