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You know most people are lucky to have one property in their life time. I have been fortunate in life. My dear old Welsh mum's father as young man lost a family farm in Rural Wales during WW1 when he was away fighting in WW1 and never forgave his older brother for not watching their father my great grandfather on my mothers fathers side. They had been sheep farmers in 1900 temperance died in childbirth leaving my great grandfather with pile of children and young baby look after. The baby was adopted out. However he hit booze and went down hill. The family farm had been in the family since 1588.

Well the story goes as my late mother tells it while her father was away at war her grandfather took on house keeper in later years. her uncle was supposed to watch over the family estate. took off and did his own thing. in mean time this housekeeper got my great grandfather suffering from the effect of alcoholism to change the will with the family farm putting it into the house keepers name. When my grandfather came back from WW1 he discovered the family had been duded out the family inheritance. So it was always sore point with in the family. My mother grew up on an another family a small holding but nothing compared to what they lost. But always recalled the bitterness of the loss. My fathers side family was from Ireland sheep farmers also. they had lost there lands also. In ironic twist of fate I had bought that property in Ireland dating back to 1800. That had EU carbon credits for having pine plantations on them and farming leased out to other farms so it pays it way.

There was historical connection to the land that made a deep rooted cultural attachment to the land and yet as generation past we have moved on to live in different countries. Today none of family or descendants have no emotional connection to property for over 100 years. Yet today the property has been offered for sale. Well only part of it. The main farm land has been incorporated into surrounding farms. The farm house with about 3 acres is up for sale. It is heritage listed grade 2 as it is virtual the same as it was built in 1588. it did have a modern extension in 1689. Even the stone outbuildings are protected.

Yet part of me wants my heart to buy the property as a strange sort of full circle. I own multiple properties around the world. I live on the other side of world. It will never be functioning farm again. heritage list places are always expensive to repair. And I have zero use for it. But part of me wants it knowing it even if it will probably be liability.

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It is opportunity in making that has taken over 100 years to be back in the family. None of family and descents are interested in it. Not even my kids And I am the only one wealthy enough in the family to buy the property. My other half will properly divorce me.

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There is a right of way through the property as it part of ancient pilgrims way. 200 metres up the hill is an ancient church dating back to 11th century.

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The ancient stone farm house dates back 1588. roughly 437 years old. for 310 years is was in my mother fathers family.

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The land was owned by a wealthy lord that supported the Royalist.. And my fathers family had rights as tenant farmer until the civil war. Afterwards the title became extinct became eventually property of family.

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The timber paneling dates back to English civil war. The English Civil Wars (1642-1651) significantly impacted Wales, with both the Royalist and Parliamentarian sides vying for control. Wales, largely supportive of the King, became a crucial area for recruiting and supplying the Royalist army. The conflict in Wales saw major battles like St. Fagans and Y Dalar Hir, and the war's end in Wales came with the Parliamentarian victory at St. Fagans. A family story that round heads came and hack the front door down as they was seen as supporters of royalists.

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Grand dad lived there between 1895 and 1915. When his father died in 1915 Grandad was in France. he had go Awol to come back to contest the will. But he never got the chance. His older brother who was supposed to have been handling things was inept. He never spoke ever to his older brother to his dying day. I met my grandfather only four times in his late 80's.

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I believe this was bedroom my great grand mother died in 1900. She died in child birth. My grandfather was only 5 years old at the time. his younger brother David the baby was adopted out and ended up in Australia. When years later he traveled back to Wales in 1958 to find his true family my grandfather would have nothing to with him. I never forgave him for that.

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The kitchen has been updated. in my grandfather's time they cooked everything in fireplace.

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The ancient pathways had trod by pilgrim visiting the church below built in the 11th century. The track on the right-hand side leads to the farm.

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The church has virtual has always been open.

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It was I believe built by the Normans. Some of my ancestors are buried in the churchyard.The tall headstone is Norman Lord who owned the land

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inside the church is drawing of a skeleton on wall dating back 14th century Wales experienced a devastating plague, the Black Death, in the mid-14th century. The plague, which arrived in 1349, is believed to have spread from southern England via maritime trade routes. It caused widespread death, with estimates suggesting a quarter of the Welsh population perished within a year. The plague's impact extended beyond mortality, significantly impacting the social, economic, and religious landscape of Wales. ironic as its reminder that Death is never far away. we went through with covid 19. Ironic as Covid killed my elderly mother.

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It has beautiful carvings dating back to the 14th century.

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Through the back gate the trail leads down to the farm.

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The old pilgrims path takes you back down to the farm. I really love to detect the ancient path.

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So there you have it. An enticing tug of war between head and heart. I know secretly which one will win. even if I do not want to admit it.

Crow
 
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If this problem was mine and the funds were available, there would only be one choice.
Buy it.
Then find someone to run the farm or run it myself.

It is a beautiful, historically significant property that should not be lost.
 
It would be nice .
Or buy it and donate it.
Or buy it and pull some timbers to use where you are now.
\Or just buy some timbers off it and call it good.

One last person to ask if my Moms birthplace can be found still.
But was forest ; like the other sites when I was shown them a half century or more ago.
All structures burnt. My kind of area despite poor soil.
I just don't recall which township or what areas to approach.

Was a good amount of land some family members held and then parted with over time. I've often thought an acre of it would suffice.
Particularly the one the old "store" was on. I did scratch around that one visit so long ago in the charred soil.

Just across the property line on land I own for hunting has a very sad tale. And the homestead razed and only a fallow ground now. Time has fragmented one mans labor in a vey long stretch there from back when. And his ashes are near my site. But then he used to work it too.

Our temporary stewardships seldom get noticed till sale time.
We're just taking care of it for someone else.
Letting someone else do so in our stead doesn't often work out the way intended. As you well know.
 
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That's a tough spot to be in, for sure. If it was me, and I had the funds, I'd buy it. Family heritage, plus all that history, it would be really hard to let it pass.

But whatever you decide, thank you for sharing the story and the photos.
 
That's a tough spot to be in, for sure. If it was me, and I had the funds, I'd buy it. Family heritage, plus all that history, it would be really hard to let it pass.

But whatever you decide, thank you for sharing the story and the photos.
You have nailed it. Yes. I can see it as a perfect self-sustaining property. It has solar power. Water is drawn from a well. The stone horse stable has been converted into a two-bedroom holiday let. I can see great opportunities with the property.

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The Top floor kitchen dinner living area.

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A basic kitchen in the stable

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Two bedrooms downstairs.

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Downstairs is bathroom and two bedrooms.

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Next to the stable is vegetable garden.

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The lower yard has green house.

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The upper yards around the main house.

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it's in a virtually forgotten corner of rural Wales. tucked away from the 21st century.

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The second yard. between the main house and converted stable.

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Old Crow old brain is going million miles an hour developing the place in my head.

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Below is oldest building that predates the house itself by nearly 200 years. It was threashing mill and drying Kiln. Dated 14th century.

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The barns can be converted into many things. They date from 17th century.

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So, it got plenty of opportunities.

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The place would be great for someone to live off the gird. Perhaps keep a few pigs, a couple of sheep, chickens. and a large vegetable garden to be self-sufficient. With a holiday let for spare cash.

On the flip side a been 200 meters from the ancient stone church. It would be ideal holiday accommodation with modern barn converted into wedding reception area and the stone barns converted into extra accommodation. An ideal location for weddings. it's only on three acres as the farmland around it is owned by other farms. So, it can never function as it did in the past as sheep farm. Even if it did have the original land that once had. it still would not be competitive. As United State, Canada and Australia and New Zealand sheep farming is 100 times more efficient. EU farm and UK farm as well is Ireland do not pay their way. They only exist from subsidies. They are too small. they cannot compete in economies to scale. Average flock size about 140 sheep per farm average. In Australia the average flock size 2423 flock size. Most farmers there have jobs elsewhere and farm part time.

Yet with its history, location and potential for other alternative business enterprises.


Crow
 
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You have nailed it. Yes. I can see it as a perfect self-sustaining property. It has solar power. Water is drawn from a well. The stone horse stable has been converted into a two-bedroom holiday let. I can see great opportunities with the property.

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The Top floor kitchen dinner living area.

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A basic kitchen in the stable

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Two bedrooms downstairs.

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Downstairs is bathroom and two bedrooms.

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Next to the stable is vegetable garden.

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The lower yard has green house.

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The upper yards around the main house.

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it's in a virtually forgotten corner of rural Wales. tucked away from the 21st century.

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The second yard. between the main house and converted stable.

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Old Crow old brain is going million miles an hour developing the place in my head.

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Below is oldest building that predates the house itself by nearly 200 years. It was threading mill and drying Kiln. Dated 14th century.

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The barns can be converted into many things. They date from 17th century.

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So, it got plenty of opportunities.

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The place would be great for someone to live off the gird. Perhaps keep a few pigs, a couple of sheep, chickens. and a large vegetable garden to be self-sufficient. With a holiday let for spare cash.

On the flip side a been 200 meters from the ancient stone church. It would be ideal holiday accommodation with modern barn converted into wedding reception area and the stone barns converted into extra accommodation. An ideal location for weddings. it's only on three acres as the farmland around it is owned by other farms. So, it can never function as it did in the past as sheep farm. Even if it did have the original land that once had. it still would not be competitive. As United State, Canada and Australia and New Zealand sheep farming is 100 times more efficient. EU farm and UK farm as well is Ireland do not pay their way. They only exist from subsidies. They are too small. they cannot compete in economies to scale. Average flock size about 140 sheep per farm average. In Australia the average flock size 2423 flock size. Most farmers there have jobs elsewhere and farm part time.

Yet with its history, location and potential for alternative business enterprises.


Crow

A religious figure here was once asked to explain lust.
He answered ; You can look once. The second time is lust.
 
That’s beautiful! I understand why you’re torn, that’s a once in a lifetime opportunity and with the family history makes it all the more awesome. But it’s a lot to take on from the other side of the world.

If you decide not to do alternate business opportunities maybe you can find someone (me) who knows how to live off the land (me) and would be content to be off the grid (me) and has a spiritual connection with the land (me) so it will be maintained properly. All you need to do is give me whoever the coordinates and the date I they need to arrive.
 
That’s beautiful! I understand why you’re torn, that’s a once in a lifetime opportunity and with the family history makes it all the more awesome. But it’s a lot to take on from the other side of the world.

If you decide not to do alternate business opportunities maybe you can find someone (me) who knows how to live off the land (me) and would be content to be off the grid (me) and has a spiritual connection with the land (me) so it will be maintained properly. All you need to do is give me whoever the coordinates and the date I they need to arrive.

Hey , you have any idea how hard I fought the urge to ingratiate myself into the situation as a caretaker.

(Good effort on your part! Let me know if you need a sheep herder.)
 
You know most people are lucky to have one property in their life time. I have been fortunate in life. My dear old Welsh mum's father as young man lost a family farm in Rural Wales during WW1 when he was away fighting in WW1 and never forgave his older brother for not watching their father my great grandfather on my mothers fathers side. They had been sheep farmers in 1900 temperance died in childbirth leaving my great grandfather with pile of children and young baby look after. The baby was adopted out. However he hit booze and went down hill. The family farm had been in the family since 1588.

Well the story goes as my late mother tells it while her father was away at war her grandfather took on house keeper in later years. her uncle was supposed to watch over the family estate. took off and did his own thing. in mean time this housekeeper got my great grandfather suffering from the effect of alcoholism to change the will with the family farm putting it into the house keepers name. When my grandfather came back from WW1 he discovered the family had been duded out the family inheritance. So it was always sore point with in the family. My mother grew up on an another family a small holding but nothing compared to what they lost. But always recalled the bitterness of the loss. My fathers side family was from Ireland sheep farmers also. they had lost there lands also. In ironic twist of fate I had bought that property in Ireland dating back to 1800. That had EU carbon credits for having pine plantations on them and farming leased out to other farms so it pays it way.

There was historical connection to the land that made a deep rooted cultural attachment to the land and yet as generation past we have moved on to live in different countries. Today none of family or descendants have no emotional connection to property for over 100 years. Yet today the property has been offered for sale. Well only part of it. The main farm land has been incorporated into surrounding farms. The farm house with about 3 acres is up for sale. It is heritage listed grade 2 as it is virtual the same as it was built in 1588. it did have a modern extension in 1689. Even the stone outbuildings are protected.

Yet part of me wants my heart to buy the property as a strange sort of full circle. I own multiple properties around the world. I live on the other side of world. It will never be functioning farm again. heritage list places are always expensive to repair. And I have zero use for it. But part of me wants it knowing it even if it will probably be liability.

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It is opportunity in making that has taken over 100 years to be back in the family. None of family and descents are interested in it. Not even my kids And I am the only one wealthy enough in the family to buy the property. My other half will properly divorce me.

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There is a right of way through the property as it part of ancient pilgrims way. 200 metres up the hill is an ancient church dating back to 11th century.

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The ancient stone farm house dates back 1588. roughly 437 years old. for 310 years is was in my mother fathers family.

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The land was owned by a wealthy lord that supported the Royalist.. And my fathers family had rights as tenant farmer until the civil war. Afterwards the title became extinct became eventually property of family.

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The timber paneling dates back to English civil war. The English Civil Wars (1642-1651) significantly impacted Wales, with both the Royalist and Parliamentarian sides vying for control. Wales, largely supportive of the King, became a crucial area for recruiting and supplying the Royalist army. The conflict in Wales saw major battles like St. Fagans and Y Dalar Hir, and the war's end in Wales came with the Parliamentarian victory at St. Fagans. A family story that round heads came and hack the front door down as they was seen as supporters of royalists.

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Grand dad lived there between 1895 and 1915. When his father died in 1915 Grandad was in France. he had go Awol to come back to contest the will. But he never got the chance. His older brother who was supposed to have been handling things was inept. He never spoke ever to his older brother to his dying day. I met my grandfather only four times in his late 80's.

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I believe this was bedroom my great grand mother died in 1900. She died in child birth. My grandfather was only 5 years old at the time. his younger brother David the baby was adopted out and ended up in Australia. When years later he traveled back to Wales in 1958 to find his true family my grandfather would have nothing to with him. I never forgave him for that.

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The kitchen has been updated. in my grandfather's time they cooked everything in fireplace.

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The ancient pathways had trod by pilgrim visiting the church below built in the 11th century. The track on the right-hand side leads to the farm.

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The church has virtual has always been open.

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It was I believe built by the Normans. Some of my ancestors are buried in the churchyard.The tall headstone is Norman Lord who owned the land

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inside the church is drawing of a skeleton on wall dating back 14th century Wales experienced a devastating plague, the Black Death, in the mid-14th century. The plague, which arrived in 1349, is believed to have spread from southern England via maritime trade routes. It caused widespread death, with estimates suggesting a quarter of the Welsh population perished within a year. The plague's impact extended beyond mortality, significantly impacting the social, economic, and religious landscape of Wales. ironic as its reminder that Death is never far away. we went through with covid 19. Ironic as Covid killed my elderly mother.

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It has beautiful carvings dating back to the 14th century.

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Through the back gate the trail leads down to the farm.

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The old pilgrims path takes you back down to the farm. I really love to detect the ancient path.

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So there you have it. An enticing tug of war between head and heart. I know secretly which one will win. even if I do not want to admit it.

Crow
As you stated to detect the area would be something that I can relate to.
Digging up your family's stuff from centuries gone by, would be priceless.

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The pilgrims trail, they walked, and once again a find from a trip is my cherished Pilgrim ampullae - holly water bottle made of lead 12th to 15thC, Scallop shell type with merchant shield on reverse
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The purchase is something that could work even in today's world.
You have providence with the purchase which can be used for the short vacation purposes.
There's many possibilities and a some more items on the plate of life.
Thanks for sharing.
A detecting holiday away.
 
Hey , you have any idea how hard I fought the urge to ingratiate myself into the situation as a caretaker.

(Good effort on your part! Let me know if you need a sheep herder.)
You have more restraint than I do, I didn’t even have an urge to fight. And thank you, I’ll definitely need help with the sheep haha.
 
You have more restraint than I do, I didn’t even have an urge to fight. And thank you, I’ll definitely need help with the sheep haha.
If we can keep herd size under four I stand a chance.
Might be the most expensive sheep raising in the region but by golly they'd be herded'd.
 
Absolutely stunning property and history. Beautiful pictures. I hope you can detect the property someday :headbang: and search that ravine/creek? next to the property.
 
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This is one of the better threads that's been on T-net in a long time. If you can afford it, buy it. You could find a couple to be care takers of the estate, allowing them free rent & the ability to have a herd/farm to make a living off of the land.
Make it a business and claim a loss. Keep a place open to stay at when you come to visit. You could will it to the government to be kept as a park upon your passing and they may exempt all taxes right now. I don't see a downside if you have the finances. Your pictures are incredible.
 
One thing you should be aware on it is grade 2 listed building. You do not have the right to do anything with the historic structure without planning permission.

In England and Wales, the management of listed buildings is the responsibility of local planning authorities and the Ministry of Housing, Communities and Local Government (i.e., not DCMS, which originally listed the building).

There is a general principle that listed buildings are put to 'appropriate and viable use' and recognition that this may involve the re-use and modification of the building. However, listed buildings cannot be modified without first obtaining Listed Building Consent through the relevant local planning authority.

For example if I converted the barn into house. You cannot alter the historical appearance. The laws are in place to protect the historic character of the building. That does not mean you cannot convert the barn in home as long as show as much historic preservation in the construction.

This house was originally not built with electricity or plumbing so some alterations are needed to make building habitable. When my grandad lived there the kitchen was the main fireplace and latrines was outside. the bath room was pressed tin bath warmed by hot water heated on pots of water heated by the fire. Grandad said they lived with oil lamps. Grandad lived there from 1895 to 1915

To day the main house has bathroom and toilet facility and electricity.

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All these things with grade 2 historical properties should be considered. Because renovation are expensive and complex..

There is belief there is the house is built on the remains of older house. pre dating1588. perhaps 14th century dwelling. The first building a welsh long house. with two wings added in 1649. Just after the English civil war.

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I wonder if there is some pretty awesome lose pocket change in those gardens? I would love to know what is at the bottom of the stone well. The door still bares the marks of the English civil war.

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I have story that one of the ancestors was dragged out of this property and hung from a tree. by the round head parliamentarians in English civil war. His grave is in church 200 meters away.

The surrounding countryside is full of stories.

Crow
 
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Crow.... For what it's worth. If and only if it would not put you in any financial hardship would I consider buying it. If that statement is true it's just a heartfelt decision. But it does come with a lot of responsibility which you'll now have to bear. If you desire to take that on then pull the trigger. I can totally understand your desire to have especially with it's history to you and it's beautiful.

Only Crow gets to vote....!
 
I've been following this thread for a while, and I can only say what a beautiful property! I'm of Irish and Welsh descent. I know most of my genealogy for my Irish ancestors, but not the Welsh side. I wonder what I might find on my Welsh side. If I had the money I would definitely buy. But I'm a romantic at heart. That's a difficult decision to make.
 
Crow.... For what it's worth. If and only if it would not put you in any financial hardship would I consider buying it. If that statement is true it's just a heartfelt decision. But it does come with a lot of responsibility which you'll now have to bear. If you desire to take that on then pull the trigger. I can totally understand your desire to have especially with it's history to you and it's beautiful.

Only Crow gets to vote....!
Ah! If that was only true! Mrs Crow has a say also.

She is still sore my buying property in the republic of Ireland below. it was 1798 stone farmhouse with 124 acres. A good part is pine forest. So to really rub her nose in I bought the neighboring properties totaling about 544 acres. I have leased out the property to neighboring farmers to graze sheep and cattle. The rest is forestry. that get EU carbon credits.

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It is so quiet there you could be only person on earth. Pine martin, red squirrels Deer and wild Connemara horses haunt the property.

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The cottage needs work it needed electricity put back on.

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The stone cottage is rustic inside.

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The fields are over grown.

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It is in wild forgotten corner of Ireland. Some usable fields with wet mountain bog land. Dig less than foot you will encounter water.

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The road to the property starts off okay.

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The road to the cottage is not great. the hill above the property in the picture below is part of the property.

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There is a sacred well on the property and stone beehive monks cell dated back to 5th century. In forest there are ruins of 13th century village destroyed by plague. There ruin of iron age settlements on the property an ancient burial cairn, a standing stone call the moon stone. and an underground soul-terrain. On the hill above farm there are Petroglyphs are images created by removing part of a rock surface through carving, engraving, or abrading. They are a form of rock art dating back into bronze age and stone age..

With carbon forestry credits. from EU and with fields lease out it more than paying its way.

But as you see that Crow being naughty not taking the other half opinion into view. I own many properties. The rental returns is has been excellent investment. The 2 bedroom stone house we are hoping to convert over time in holiday let. That will add a third income stream from the party. There is rolling harvesting of timber in next few year. Which is another income stream. The down side I get tax twice once by the Irish government and by the Australian government as tax on foreign investment. I get about 600 dollars return per week passive income. The real is payday is when the pine forest is logged The value of a pine timber acre varies significantly based on factors like timber type, age, location, and market conditions, but can range from a few thousand dollars to over ten thousand dollars per acre in a clear cut scenario. At present prices I can get nearly a million in return for the timber in another 10 years or so after the logging company gets there cut.

So you see its a long term investment.

Crow
 
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I'm going with the heart...! Mr. Crow will explain the heartfelt family background connection to Mrs. Crow and she'll just say "follow you heart Old Crow". And the rest will be history.
 
You know most people are lucky to have one property in their life time. I have been fortunate in life. My dear old Welsh mum's father as young man lost a family farm in Rural Wales during WW1 when he was away fighting in WW1 and never forgave his older brother for not watching their father my great grandfather on my mothers fathers side. They had been sheep farmers in 1900 temperance died in childbirth leaving my great grandfather with pile of children and young baby look after. The baby was adopted out. However he hit booze and went down hill. The family farm had been in the family since 1588.

Well the story goes as my late mother tells it while her father was away at war her grandfather took on house keeper in later years. her uncle was supposed to watch over the family estate. took off and did his own thing. in mean time this housekeeper got my great grandfather suffering from the effect of alcoholism to change the will with the family farm putting it into the house keepers name. When my grandfather came back from WW1 he discovered the family had been duded out the family inheritance. So it was always sore point with in the family. My mother grew up on an another family a small holding but nothing compared to what they lost. But always recalled the bitterness of the loss. My fathers side family was from Ireland sheep farmers also. they had lost there lands also. In ironic twist of fate I had bought that property in Ireland dating back to 1800. That had EU carbon credits for having pine plantations on them and farming leased out to other farms so it pays it way.

There was historical connection to the land that made a deep rooted cultural attachment to the land and yet as generation past we have moved on to live in different countries. Today none of family or descendants have no emotional connection to property for over 100 years. Yet today the property has been offered for sale. Well only part of it. The main farm land has been incorporated into surrounding farms. The farm house with about 3 acres is up for sale. It is heritage listed grade 2 as it is virtual the same as it was built in 1588. it did have a modern extension in 1689. Even the stone outbuildings are protected.

Yet part of me wants my heart to buy the property as a strange sort of full circle. I own multiple properties around the world. I live on the other side of world. It will never be functioning farm again. heritage list places are always expensive to repair. And I have zero use for it. But part of me wants it knowing it even if it will probably be liability.

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It is opportunity in making that has taken over 100 years to be back in the family. None of family and descents are interested in it. Not even my kids And I am the only one wealthy enough in the family to buy the property. My other half will properly divorce me.

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There is a right of way through the property as it part of ancient pilgrims way. 200 metres up the hill is an ancient church dating back to 11th century.

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The ancient stone farm house dates back 1588. roughly 437 years old. for 310 years is was in my mother fathers family.

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The land was owned by a wealthy lord that supported the Royalist.. And my fathers family had rights as tenant farmer until the civil war. Afterwards the title became extinct became eventually property of family.

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The timber paneling dates back to English civil war. The English Civil Wars (1642-1651) significantly impacted Wales, with both the Royalist and Parliamentarian sides vying for control. Wales, largely supportive of the King, became a crucial area for recruiting and supplying the Royalist army. The conflict in Wales saw major battles like St. Fagans and Y Dalar Hir, and the war's end in Wales came with the Parliamentarian victory at St. Fagans. A family story that round heads came and hack the front door down as they was seen as supporters of royalists.

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Grand dad lived there between 1895 and 1915. When his father died in 1915 Grandad was in France. he had go Awol to come back to contest the will. But he never got the chance. His older brother who was supposed to have been handling things was inept. He never spoke ever to his older brother to his dying day. I met my grandfather only four times in his late 80's.

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I believe this was bedroom my great grand mother died in 1900. She died in child birth. My grandfather was only 5 years old at the time. his younger brother David the baby was adopted out and ended up in Australia. When years later he traveled back to Wales in 1958 to find his true family my grandfather would have nothing to with him. I never forgave him for that.

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The kitchen has been updated. in my grandfather's time they cooked everything in fireplace.

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The ancient pathways had trod by pilgrim visiting the church below built in the 11th century. The track on the right-hand side leads to the farm.

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The church has virtual has always been open.

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It was I believe built by the Normans. Some of my ancestors are buried in the churchyard.The tall headstone is Norman Lord who owned the land

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inside the church is drawing of a skeleton on wall dating back 14th century Wales experienced a devastating plague, the Black Death, in the mid-14th century. The plague, which arrived in 1349, is believed to have spread from southern England via maritime trade routes. It caused widespread death, with estimates suggesting a quarter of the Welsh population perished within a year. The plague's impact extended beyond mortality, significantly impacting the social, economic, and religious landscape of Wales. ironic as its reminder that Death is never far away. we went through with covid 19. Ironic as Covid killed my elderly mother.

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It has beautiful carvings dating back to the 14th century.

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Through the back gate the trail leads down to the farm.

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The old pilgrims path takes you back down to the farm. I really love to detect the ancient path.

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So there you have it. An enticing tug of war between head and heart. I know secretly which one will win. even if I do not want to admit it.

Crow
Sounds like you have already made your mind up. Sell one of your other properties and latch onto your family legacy. Bring all of your family out there and Get Them involved and excited.
 

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