Yeah,I'd have to agree with you Darren.The good old days are gone and i'm sure at one time or another most of us here have been somewhere we should't have been.So let us stick with the subject at hand.Personally,I don't have any good stories, so let's hear from those who do.Darren in NC said:Good grief, guys. Why the guilt trips? I'll be the first to admit we should have responsible behavior. But I also grew up in the days before hunting leases. You could go to any patch of woods nearby in the country and just go hunting - guns, dogs and all. You didn't have to ask for permission because people in those days assumed trust of others. Those days are gone and I know times have changed. But some of us remember those days and still feel "assumed trust" is just as respectable as "permission based trust." Call me an idealist and out of date, but don't lay the heavy on me just because I go detect a patch of woods somewhere and didn't call the paper company ahead of time. I always ask individual land owners for permission. I can't say I do for public or company owned land. Bergie asked for stories, so let's stick with his request instead of critiquing how we got there.

! She was really excited and I thought she was going to lite into me. She was all but screaming when she ask me just what I thought I was doing. I told her that I had gotten permission from the lady inside. She said that lady had no authority to give me permission. I apologized and told her in a calm voice that I was sorry and that I would leave. I had picked up quite a bit of trash and one or two clad coins ( I thinks the property had been detected over many times before me.) I showed her the trash I had picked up and offered to give her back the couple of coins I'd found and she quited down a little but she was still shakeing. I think she must have thought I was going to give her a bad time or something. Anyway the moral to this story is to have WRITTEN permission from the person in charge. The second time I was ask to leave was in a Seattle city park. I had ask for and recieved permission by mail that it was alright to detect in Seattle's city parks and I carried the letter in my wallet just in case I was ever stopped. Sure enough, one day I ran into one of the park employees that was working nearby and he got all excited about me digging in the park. I always fill in the holes and try to leave the area just like I found it. He ask me what I was doing and I showed him a handfull of coins I had found and also the garbage I had picked up. He was one of those guys that had a superior attitude and told me not to dig in the park. I told him that I had permission and was going to show him my letter. He started raising his voice and getting excited before I could get the letter out. I figured it wasn't worth argueing with the guy, so I told him I would leave. I've detected in a LOT of Seattle parks and have never had any other problems. I think there are a few people like to throw their weight around and it's best that we just "put our tails beteen our legs and leave" as someone else said. I used to be really shy about asking permission and have missed a lot of good places to detect. When you ask for permission, they can only say yes or no and I have found that most people are really nice and say yes. The ones that say no are pretty nice as well. It's a lot better to hear the "no" before you get started than to hear it after you get caught without permission! Get permission, it's better to be safe than sorry...
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Shutterbug said:A little note for Hank and his reply....
There are times, Hank, when it's better to walk away than to make a confrontation.? I believe there are things to fight for and things we should walk away from.? I take offence to the term meekly. I served three terms in the jungles of Viet Nam and have two Purple Hearts to show for it.? That was worth fighting and dieing for... metal detecting isn't.?
Darren in NC said:To all on the forum...I have ex-friends who loved to push my buttons and then play innocent when they finally got a reaction. I found out if they are ignored, they go away. It's no fun when they can't get others to notice their needy cries for attention. Cheers.
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The reason they 'pushed your buttons", [I imagine] , is because you are so easy to wind up. ? "Cheers".? ?
Man--what a sight!