Thanks friends for your comments. This little female possom is the only one that lives around near the house, she lives under it. She aint really no trouble, I have got used to her,
I leave all uneaten food out for her at night, she absolutely adores my beef stew 
The only time I see the BIG male is mating time..She's around 3 years old now & we still haven't seen any babies..
Its not really a problem, I feed all critters. When it snowed a week back, I went & got 2- 50lb bags of scratch, I went through it in less then a week. I just couldn't see them all be hungry in such cold weather.
Molly.