That's the "pendelum" swinging from way right to way left. We cannot seem to come to the middle.
While I have never heard the term "breeder" for heterosexuals, and I am against gender "roles" - I have fought that my entire life - denying that what is between your legs makes you a girl or a boy - a him or a her - is the height of stupidity. In fact - it lying to the kids - you are either a boy or a girl, physically - I mean, sheesh. Its no less than picking a puppy - is it a boy or a girl - "that" means its a boy, "that" means its a girl.
Nobody is ever going to convince me that just because I play with trucks and tractors that I'm not a girl - hell, I'm 60+ and I STILL play with tractors - backhoes, bulldozers, etc. I like them - and I like men, too. The same way with boys - just because a boy plays with a doll, doesn't mean squat - it means he's using his imagination - which, by the way - GI JOE was a doll.
My daughter (like me) was as tomboy as you could get - she kicked the butts of most of her brother's friends - even once knocking two of their heads together and knocking them both down. (I did reprimand her after I stopped laughing). She spent a time in her life dressing like a male punk rocker - but, she could also be the frilliest girly girl you'd ever want to know.
My kids - all of them - like me - worked on cars, and tractors, and gardens - nobody was exempt. And, my daughter is a married woman with 2 children, and my boys are both married men with kids - having their butts kicked by their sister didn't change a thing. They all get along great, and they cross the ocean to visit with each other.
The "facts of life" don't change. Some things are just facts. Trying to act like there are no differences between girls and boys is like trying to act like every human being is exactly the same as every other. It sure limits the value of diversity, that's for sure. I would never have my kids in that school.
Beth