I have no doubt that many Americans don’t understand or see her contributions the way others may.
What most of us see is another elite surrounded by her gilded castle, living a life supported by untold amounts of money amassed through generations of squander and manipulation.
Given the state of our world many more people recognize the games played by the ruling class and are no longer star struck by the glitter. I can’t look at any politician, ceo or other enormously wealthy person who’s in the limelight and feel like they in any way represent the common good or every day contributing people.
Given the number of scandals surrounding the royal family in the last few decades I find it hard to believe she would be completely oblivious to them or have a clean hands in regards to them.
As I mentioned if you feel a loss for that I am genuinely sympathetic. Loss is tough. I do however feel that looking for support without contradicting views on the internet of all places a fools errand.