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Over the years I have learned a very valuable lesson, and because I see some of you making the same mistakes, I felt obligated to share.
Stop telling people about your plans and grand aspirations. Especially the profound or magical ones. You’re often just inviting their doubts, limitations, and negativity into your own mind, which has the devastating effect of dampening your enthusiasm and momentum. Most people won’t truly believe in what you’re doing until you show them results. And even then, very few will be genuinely proud or happy for you. Instead, many will only think "How can I get some of that for myself?"
I know we all crave that feeling of camaraderie and sharing our journey. But sadly, many people react with jealousy or envy when they see someone pulling ahead. It makes them feel inferior. They project their own limitations onto you, sometimes even disguising it as “concern.” Even family can do this.
“Doubt is the only force capable of disturbing the seed or impression; to avoid a miscarriage of so wonderful a child, walk in secrecy through the necessary interval of time that it will take the impression to become an expression. Tell no man of your spiritual romance. Lock your secret within you in joy, confident and happy that some day you will bear the son of your lover by expressing and possessing the nature of your impression. Then will you know the mystery of ‘God said, Let us make man in our image.'"
Lock your vision inside you with joy and confidence. When the time is right and you’ve brought it into reality, then decide who (if anyone) is worthy of hearing the full story.
Stop telling people about your plans and grand aspirations. Especially the profound or magical ones. You’re often just inviting their doubts, limitations, and negativity into your own mind, which has the devastating effect of dampening your enthusiasm and momentum. Most people won’t truly believe in what you’re doing until you show them results. And even then, very few will be genuinely proud or happy for you. Instead, many will only think "How can I get some of that for myself?"
I know we all crave that feeling of camaraderie and sharing our journey. But sadly, many people react with jealousy or envy when they see someone pulling ahead. It makes them feel inferior. They project their own limitations onto you, sometimes even disguising it as “concern.” Even family can do this.
“Doubt is the only force capable of disturbing the seed or impression; to avoid a miscarriage of so wonderful a child, walk in secrecy through the necessary interval of time that it will take the impression to become an expression. Tell no man of your spiritual romance. Lock your secret within you in joy, confident and happy that some day you will bear the son of your lover by expressing and possessing the nature of your impression. Then will you know the mystery of ‘God said, Let us make man in our image.'"
Lock your vision inside you with joy and confidence. When the time is right and you’ve brought it into reality, then decide who (if anyone) is worthy of hearing the full story.
“Let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night, and when you move, fall like a thunderbolt.”
— Sun Tzu, The Art of War
— Sun Tzu, The Art of War
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