My condolences - even if it was 20 years ago.
I lost my mother 11/30/95 - and I have missed her every day.
After I lost my mother, the very nicest thing that was ever said to me happened - Roy's mom told me that I would always have a mother as long as she was around. She really helped me through it.
Then, 2 years ago on February 9th, we lost Roy's mom. She died on my mother's birthday. And, I don't think we ever really get over it. Even today, when I was doing something, the thought passed in my mind that my mother-in-law would certainly like what I had done - but in the present sense - and then, it hit me all over again.
And now - I am an orphan again.
B