Congrats, lots of strong will. I'm glad you've done so well for yourself you're a wonderful person and deserve more than what things like that would offer. I myself have decided to quit drinking and haven't touched any in awhile. Also teaches you who are real friends and who isn't. Told a friend I was quiting instead of being happy for me I got questioned to why and for what. As far as my "friend" was concerned they were losing a drinking partner and cared only for that.
Morning John
Ah can relate to the pocket friends, around till the pocket was empty.
Met many in the younger days.
When I slipped to some lows, no help from them.
The guilt must run deep with one as 45 yrs later when he hears a hello through another person from me, he gets a tad uncomfortable. I'll keep that going till he sees the other side.
No use for the facilitating types in this world.
A fellow explained it to me 20 yrs ago as Crabbing.
Say what?
He was a great guy, solid family, religious, values that most would only try to inspire to.
Fill a big old galvanized wash tub with crabs.
Now watch what happens.
Every time a crab tries to make it out, another reaches up and drags it back down.
So don't let them go crabbing you, because now you know the results.
The reflection in the mirror is the one you can trust in your life.
Ok back to planting something, so I will be able to eat this winter.