Here is a Love Question

[vibes]

http://www.sunny1015.com/features/take_note.php

My first interview with Baba...scroll down to the bottom for the link-up

 

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[lincha]

Hey guys thanks for all the feedback. Spart the meal ticket part is not correct. While I did support him quite a bit these two years, not enough according to him. But he was bringing home two thousand a week when he was working before as a pipefitter in Wyoming. He paid all of the bills and we had money in the bank back in those days. He has been back for four days and starts work on Monday, he found a job pretty quick, will be making more money than I am. He could have stayed in Texas to live with his sister if he had wanted to. He will be working as a pipefitter again as soon as he gets a call about a job, we have an RV and travel from place to place, so seems likes that is what we will be doing again. I really think that he is still tied up in his feelings and emotions with whatever person he spent time with in Mexico. Pretty ironic really, stay faithful to the girlfriend and not the wife? But that is just my thought since he has given me no input to what is really going on. Like I said he says he wants to stay married, so for now guess I will put up with the kisses on the forehead, or the quick peck on the mouth, things cant get worse and this point, at least I think not. Trust has been lost between us, can it be built up again, I am not sure. Maybe if I bail long enough the boat will not sink as of yet. Mighty thanks for you kind words. Vibes thanks for listening, Spart, thanks for being you. And I can do the butt kicking myself when or if it gets to that point.

 

[spartacus53]

Hey guys thanks for all the feedback. Spart the meal ticket part is not correct. While I did support him quite a bit these two years, not enough according to him.

Let's cut to the chase, I hope you understand the way I view this as an outsider.

Spart the meal ticket part is not correct. While I did support him quite a bit these two years, not enough according to him - That sounds like a meal ticket to me

"Pretty ironic really, stay faithful to the girlfriend and not the wife"? I would say his logic is slightly flawed, especially since he will not open up to you. As I see it, you are his safety valve. You should be first, always first, and only first; not an afterthought. Maybe I'm wrong, but the last time I was wrong was in 1975 and that time I thought I was wrong

"Maybe if I bail long enough the boat will not sink as of yet". Keep in mind there are 2 people in that boat and "both" have to bail water just to stay afloat. You need teamwork, and "you" can't being doing the work for both

 

[Mighty AP]

http://www.sunny1015.com/features/take_note.php

My first interview with Baba...scroll down to the bottom for the link-up

Are you a DJ for Sunny 101.5 Vibes??
Whoever did the interview has the voice of angel.........Im at work now so I cant really listen to the whole interview but I will at home. This Baba guy sounds very interesting, I look forward to hearing what he has to say.

 

[spartacus53]

http://www.sunny1015.com/features/take_note.php

My first interview with Baba...scroll down to the bottom for the link-up

That is her voice AP, she said that is her interview You really have a soft and soothing voice their, I just wish "Bubba", would come up for air more often so I could hear you.

 

[Mighty AP]

Sorry, I had no idea. You do have a voice meant for the radio & face meant for the screen. Maybe you should get into TV or movies Vibes.............Spart & I will start your fan club!

 

[spartacus53]

Sorry, I had no idea. You do have a voice meant for the radio & face meant for the screen. Maybe you should get into TV or movies Vibes.............Spart & I will start your fan club!

I will be in that fan club if I am "Prezidant" , or VP

 

[Mighty AP]

Sorry, I had no idea. You do have a voice meant for the radio & face meant for the screen. Maybe you should get into TV or movies Vibes.............Spart & I will start your fan club!

I will be in that fan club if I am "Prezidant" , or VP

Who else but you could be PREZIDANT? I can be your body guard Spart........can I please have a gun or at least one of those night sticks?

 

[lincha]

Marriage, would I do it again, I think not too much work. This is my second if it goes kaput, I'm pretty sure, I'm done with the whole tradition.

 

[Mighty AP]

Marriage, would I do it again, I think not too much work. This is my second if it goes kaput, I'm pretty sure, I'm done with the whole tradition.

That aint such a bad thing Lincha...........both me & my girl had just gotten out of bad marriages when we met. 18 years later we are still goin' strong & still un-married. Marriage is just a piece of paper. If two people are not completely committed to each other, it wont work whether they are married or not.

 

[lincha]

Hey Mighty, Im glad you have a happy home. I will have one someday. Hey Spart, you wanna dance for me, I have a dollar?

 

[Mighty AP]

Hey Mighty, Im glad you have a happy home. I will have one someday. Hey Spart, you wanna dance for me, I have a dollar?

Think positive, dont put up with no crap & go get what it is you want.......you will have a happy home someday.

A dollar?? Start throwin nickels at him & he will dance like a crazy man!
.............take pics Linda!

 

[spartacus53]

This video was taken when I was a bit younger and you should surely pay more than a buck for it.

Sorry for the poor quality, but cam recorders were new back then and my father already had a few. :P

Be careful what you wish for

 

[lincha]

Hey Baby, oops I mean Spart. Thanks for the dance, no dollar for you, how about some milk? The girls here at work, had to come see what the noise was about. Thanks for the laugh.

 

[spartacus53]

Hey Baby, oops I mean Spart. Thanks for the dance, no dollar for you, how about some milk? The girls here at work, had to come see what the noise was about. Thanks for the laugh.

No problem, I bet 1/2 the women there wanted me too

 

[lincha]

Well the saga continues. The other woman showed up in the form of text messages yesterday. She filled me in on what he has been up to and how he loves her. So I asked here why is he with me then. Says she knows that he will not be intimate with me because she will not allow it .After some text name calling betwen us, told the bit__ you know the word, that she can keep living her poor ass life in Mexico, and I will keep my great life here. So guess who gets the surprise this morning, made him a nice breakfast, and after he is done eating Im gonna hand him the phone and let him read the .garbage she sent me. Looks like its gonna blow today. Oh by the way last night after he went to bed I just happended to remove that little permanent resident card he wanted so much.

 

[Mighty AP]

Well the saga continues. The other woman showed up in the form of text messages yesterday. She filled me in on what he has been up to and how he loves her. So I asked here why is he with me then. Says she knows that he will not be intimate with me because she will not allow it .After some text name calling betwen us, told the bit__ you know the word, that she can keep living her poor ass life in Mexico, and I will keep my great life here. So guess who gets the surprise this morning, made him a nice breakfast, and after he is done eating Im gonna hand him the phone and let him read the .garbage she sent me. Looks like its gonna blow today. Oh by the way last night after he went to bed I just happended to remove that little permanent resident card he wanted so much.

Now call immigration on him! LOL Im sure glad Im on your good side Lincha...........RIGHT??
Dont take no crap, stand up for yourself & know that there are plenty of good men out there if this doesnt pan out the way you want it to. Good luck & take a pic of them dragging him to the immigration waggon for us...........we'd love to see that!

 

[EagleDown]

No problem, I bet 1/2 the women there wanted me too
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Hell, you were so cute, for a minute there, I wanted you!!! NOT!!

lincha, I've read this thread from the beginning and mixed in with a lot of laughter, you've also recieved some really worthwhile advice. But, as has been said, the choice is really one that only you can make!! Which brings to mind...................

A former sister-in-law of mine. She was married to a guy that I though was great. They lived together (except for his job,) for 12 years before they got married. (After they had 3 beautiful children.) He was an engineer for a railroad, and was gone for a week or so at a time, so I guess she wanted that "Explosion" in her life. Anyway, she started "seeing" another man. Since the other man was married, I once asked her why she was still "seeing" him after about 2 years into the relationship. Her answer was, "He promised me he's going to leave his wife so that we can get married". 12 years later, (the last time I saw her, at my wifes funeral,) she was still waiting for him to "leave" his wife.
FYI, I'm 74 years young, and feel that I have enough experience "under my belt" (Oops, I really didn't mean that as a pun, it just slipped out) to keep out of others personal affairs, because Later, if things don't go right, guess who gets the blame. And, if things do go right, Well, let's just say, I dont want to be another Dear Abby. (lol) So, I'll just leave this little phrase that has helped me over some bumps, for many years......"In matters of love, it's easy to forgive, but impossible to forget"!!

Love and Respect

I clicked post and was informed that there were 2 new posts. So, it seems that the matter is resolved without my sage advice. (lol)

 

[lincha]

So It blew, oh how it blew. After him informing me that he didnt think we could make a go of it, after I let him read the texts, I said okay. So what he has been hiding is that he had a child with this woman. Born a few months ago. I told him to go ahead and leave, but that his card was mine, because it is for the husband of an American. Said he wants to be friends and I out of the goodness born of my heart should let him keep his card. I told him in no way was that acceptable to me. I did not sacrifice to let someone else reap the benefits. So now he wants to work on the marriage on a day to day basis. Told him I would let him know, but meanwhile card stays with me. Think I need sometime to think, again, at least most of the garbage is out in the open. He tells me he doesnt want the woman, I reminded him out one time he did and at least he should have used protection. If we dont stay married he loses everything, me I will just lose lots of time and part of my heart. But we survive. And the baby girl will most likely grow up without a father, even though he will have to support it.

 

[spartacus53]

Geezz, this is like a soap opera, or the movie the "Never Ending Story".